Especially if they are the same sex. I have 2 kids already (DD-5 and DS-14 months) and I am due with boy #2 in July. I don't find myself interested in buying anything really. I know I want to buy a double stroller and a better monitor but even those aren't necessary.
I have clothes, toys, cloth diapers, bottles, bassinet etc. I feel like I should be buying things but I'm not really sure what.
Pinky 12/07 : Sparky 02/12 : Rocky 08/13
Re: Do you find yourself not buying a lot for LO#2?
If I was having another boy, I wouldn't be buying anything except a double stroller (eventually) and a swing (because we didn't have one for DS). And we just got a video monitor, but that was actually because I wanted to watch DS, and I just used LO2 as an excuse to get it.
But I'm having a girl, so I'm having fun buying clothes.
BFP #1 : 05.08.11 : EDD : 01.16.12 : DOB : 01.15.12
BFP #2 : 12.26.12 : EDD : 09.08.13 : DOB : 09.03.13
I am having a second boy and feel like I am not planning to buy anything, They will only be two months apart with their birthdays so his clothes will be seasonally close enough that I won't need to buy anything else, and DS#2 will be in with us until DS #! moves into his "Big Boy bed", so we are not buying any extra nursery furniture.
I might buy a double stroller, but we are waiting until after DS #2 gets here to see if we need it (DS#1 will be 21-22 months my then), and I may get more diapers & wipes (we cloth diaper, but I don't plan on DS#1 being in diapers for long after DS#2 is born)
So all in all, I can't see me needing anything for DS#2, I feel bad, but I am sure we will get a few things in the end, at the very least we will buy him a Little Brother T-shirt
I'm having another boy who will be 25 months younger than DS1, so his clothing seasons will be all the same as DS1's. It's incredibly convenient because I have needed to buy zero clothes.
This time around, I did get a very good double stroller since we use ours a lot. But otherwise, most of our purchases have been to replace things that have worn out since DS1 was a baby or to get a second of whatever we need more of: 2nd humidifier, replace the fan in the nursery, upgrade to a video baby monitor that can take two cameras, more Vitamin D drops, more baby care products, diapers, a 2nd baby mirror for the car, replace pacis, bottle nipples, and pump parts, etc.
We've actually spent more money on DS1 as he's entering the toddler stage and has a need for older kid stuff.