Did anyone here opt NOT to do the NT scan? 
We decided to do the 1st and 2nd trimester screenings. Comparing the two, there isn't a huge difference in the probability of finding any defects and as I understand it, we'd just be informed sooner than later of any with the addition of the NT scan ::am I right?:: I'm under 30 ::hubby was 33 at time of conception:: and we don't have a family history of birth defects which is why we didn't really think to have it done and our NP suggested the 1st and 2nd tri screenings only based on that...                
                             
        
Re: NT Scan?
That's one of the reasons I'm thinking of doing it but we had a scan at 8 and 11 weeks and will have the next one at 16 weeks...I can see why you decided to...that's a long time to wait to see LO! I just don't want to worry if I don't need to. Hopefully your scan went well!
MMC 01/26/12
MC 12/25/12, D&C 01/05/13
BFP 03/05/13, EDD 11/12/13. HB 175 @ 9w2d. Its a Girl!
DX with EA/TEF Type C & Tracheomalaysia
MC @ 13wks 01/15/15
BFP 1/11/18, EDD 9/21/18
For what it's worth, the defects that are being scanned for w/ the NT scan aren't due to genetics so your "no family history" part really shouldn't play a part in your decision making process. It checks for chromosomal abnormalities, which are genetic flukes. It's true that chromosomal abnormalities are more likely in older women, but they do happen to younger women too. I happened to be one of them w/ my first pregnancy at 27.
Also, I'm pretty sure the "1st Tri" scan IS the NT scan are the same thing, unless your OB has a different plan? It involves an ultrasound and some bloodwork.
https://www.babycenter.com/0_nuchal-translucency-screening_118.bc
My NT was quick (because baby was chilling on his/her back and it made the scan go fast) and the bloodwork was done via finger prick. I'm a big fan of knowledge is power, so it was a no brainer for us.
I was reading the paperwork the dr office gave us and the difference in the test we're doing and the one that includes the NT scan is the ultrasound. With the test we're doing, it's strictly blood draws though we'll also have the anatomy scan at 20 weeks ::which wouldn't be our 1st tri anymore::
My GF's first baby had many genetic abnormalities that were found after her first blood draw ::they didn't do the NT scan:: that were lethal if the baby was carried full term. They were purely genetic flukes and nothing in their family histories...they are opting for the NT scan with this pregnancy. My other GF had miscarriage very early on and they opted for the NT scan with her now 3 month old daughter...they both recently asked if we were doing it which is why I'm on the fence. I don't know if I want the stress if it won't change our decision with the baby either way ::uncertain face::
I don't understand what people mean when they say "wouldn't change our decision with the baby". If there were something seriously wrong that required specialists or treatment in a hospital that was well prepared for the condition I would want to ensure I changed my plans to be there. If there would be additional costs and/or govt plans to deal with I would organize cash flow and get everything in order.
I respect the right to choose to have the tests done or not but it bothers me when the argument is "wouldn't change anything".
BFP #2 ~ 4/22/2010 ~ EDD 12/29/2010 ~ Born 12/19/2010 ~ My Rainbow Baby
BFP #3 ~ 6/10/2012 ~ EDD 2/20/2013 ~ HB 100bpm @ 9w3d ~ M/C 7/11/2012
BFP #4 ~ 3/16/2013 ~ EDD 11/20/2013 ~ Born 11/17/2013 ~ Rainbow Baby #2
MMC 01/26/12
MC 12/25/12, D&C 01/05/13
BFP 03/05/13, EDD 11/12/13. HB 175 @ 9w2d. Its a Girl!
DX with EA/TEF Type C & Tracheomalaysia
MC @ 13wks 01/15/15
BFP 1/11/18, EDD 9/21/18
When we say it wouldnt change anyrig, we mwan that we will want and love the baby anyways. A condition like downs syndrome wouldnt cause us to terminate. A lot of people would choose tk end the pregnancy and try to have a "normal" baby,but for us, it wouldnt matter.
MMC 01/26/12
MC 12/25/12, D&C 01/05/13
BFP 03/05/13, EDD 11/12/13. HB 175 @ 9w2d. Its a Girl!
DX with EA/TEF Type C & Tracheomalaysia
MC @ 13wks 01/15/15
BFP 1/11/18, EDD 9/21/18
See that's where it sounds like you have not done your research on what is being tested. Many of the trisomies are much much more severe than Downs and are not compatible with life. There have been many people and many on the bump that have had to deal with the difficult decisions around finding out their child had a condition that would result in certain, painful death.
It has absolutely nothing to do with loving or wanting your child. And certainly has nothing to do with some quest for a "normal" baby. Wow.
BFP #2 ~ 4/22/2010 ~ EDD 12/29/2010 ~ Born 12/19/2010 ~ My Rainbow Baby
BFP #3 ~ 6/10/2012 ~ EDD 2/20/2013 ~ HB 100bpm @ 9w3d ~ M/C 7/11/2012
BFP #4 ~ 3/16/2013 ~ EDD 11/20/2013 ~ Born 11/17/2013 ~ Rainbow Baby #2
My insurance does not cover NT sans and my provider doesnt do them regularily without sending out a referral to a specialist and thats only if you are paying out of pocket or your insurance will cover it. Like I posted above, I have an ultrasound on Monday at 11w6d anyway bwcause my pregnancy is high risk because of a uterine abnormality, so if anything abnormal is seen, I am sure the tech will bring it to my midwifes attention. I will also be getting bloodwork done that day as well.
MMC 01/26/12
MC 12/25/12, D&C 01/05/13
BFP 03/05/13, EDD 11/12/13. HB 175 @ 9w2d. Its a Girl!
DX with EA/TEF Type C & Tracheomalaysia
MC @ 13wks 01/15/15
BFP 1/11/18, EDD 9/21/18
Plus, at our appointment this week we got a bonus peek at our babe and everything looked good. Now I feel more confident in our decision to skip further testing.
ETA also, I will deliver at a hospital with a level 3 NICU, heaven forbid anything is wrong.
TTC since 6/2012
BFP #1 1/15/2013, EDD 9/27/2013, MMC 2/1/2013
BFP #2 2/26/13, EDD 11/8/13
Thank you. There's a woman on PgAL right now who is currently, at 16 weeks, facing every mother's worst nightmare of a baby whose multiple diagnoses are incompatible with life and actually causing the baby to suffer. She's starting the process to induce labor today. And I can assure you, as someone who's IF, PgAL, and has watched friends suffer with some unfathomable diagnoses, "it wouldn't change the outcome for us" is incredibly naive.
If your baby is in the womb gasping for every breath because of omphalocele (abdominal organs outside the body), a heart and lungs that are being compressed by organ deformations or being (literally) torn limb from limb by amniotic band syndrome, it's not so simple as a trite comment that you'd love the baby no matter what - and it's incredibly offensive that those who elect to TFMR somehow DON'T love their babies as much as anyone else.
Fetal diagnostics don't exist so people who "don't love their babies" can terminate a pregnancy on a whim. They exist because, unfortunately, poor fetal diagnoses DO exist, and the earlier you find out some of them, the better.
My comment about not changing our decision about our baby did not include such cases as you mentioned as my best girlfriends first pregnancy was her baby's organs were outside of the body and his spine was at a 90 degree angle. They decided to terminate the pregnancy because if the baby made it to full term he would have suffered. It was a very hard decision as I can only imagine it is for any family going through it. Her baby's diagnosis came without an NT scan and was found via blood tests only and subsequent ultrasounds after knowing something was wrong. This was at 16 weeks for her.
I'm very sorry if it came off as insensitive as that was not or ever is my intent with my questions and responses.
No worries. It's just a very, very hard subject for a lot of us. There's a LOT of naivete on this board (and many others, as well as in the general US media, etc) about exactly what the NT is for and what some of the real implications of poor fetal diagnosis can mean for families.
And, my intent is NOT to scare you. But god forbid you or anyone else here winds up with poor fetal diagnosis, it is always easier to terminate a pregnancy earlier rather than later. I HATE that it has to be that way, but for your (collective your - as in everyone who might read this) sake and your future fertility, knowing now vs 20+ weeks can make a huge difference.
Actually I have to chime in about when people say the whole I love my baby no matter what. I don't think it implies *anything* other than exactly what they said. They'll love THEIR baby no matter what. They're not worrying about what others are choosing to do or not to do, they're making their own choice. Maybe they're just the type to not worry, maybe they don't want to know, maybe they don't want the extra stress if they are borderline or at risk.
The same exact thing goes for people who do choose the NT. Maybe they just want the extra U/S, maybe they are super concerned, maybe they want to be fore-warned if necessary and as informed as possible. They'll still love THEIR baby no matter what, but they want to know more.
Everyone needs to start recognizing that on both sides of the NT or not issue is that it is a PERSONAL decision, either way.
No one should be judging people either way. Sure, if someone asks, share your thoughts, but people are gonna do what they're gonna do.
To those of you who choose not to, I wish you the best and send good thoughts your way, to those of you who find out your babies are at risk I send you tons of hugs and well wishes, to those of you who have to make difficult decisions even more hugs, and to those of you who find out hopeful news congratulations!
Sidenote: We had the NT done since I'm over 35. If yours is covered, it is really nice to get an extra chance to see. I actually got two since baby didn't want to be in the right position the first time.
To the person who only had to do the pin prick---lucky! I had to do an entire vial. After the 10 or so vials I had to do a few weeks ago I feel like I was visited by a vampire!