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Jenrileysmom
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Post D&E appointment
Jenrileysmom
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Doc didn't examine me. He said there was no reason to. My light bleeding has almost stopped and I've had almost no pain since I had i had it done last Friday. He said we were cleared for sex and my husband is very excited about that. He works away and will be home tonight. He sent me a pic of condoms that he already picked up. Lol.
He said that pathology ruled it as chromosomal problems with the fetus. I didn't even know they would test it but he didn't tell me anymore than that. I don't think he knew anymore than that. He said there should be no problems conceiving again or carrying to term. i hope he is right. We want to try again but probably not for a little while. Originally he said 3 cycles but he dropped back to 2 today, said I seemed to be in a good state of mind and that my body should be back to normal after one cycle. I'm thinking we will try around August.
I'm feeling better as the days go on, I had a pretty good day today and the only bummer was seeing a very pregnant young (16ish) and dirty looking girl while waiting for my appointment. I got that feeling "why her and not me" But I'm already lucky to have my daughter (6) I'm just hoping to be able to add to my family.
I'm having a hard time concentrating at work since this all happened, hopefully that will go away soon too before I get in trouble.
Mirena removed 11/10/11. BFP 02/20/13 - MMC discovered 4/17/13 @ 11w4d.
BFP 12/14/13, EDD 8/21/14.It's a BOY! DS born 8/15/14.
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Re: Post D&E appointment
I had my DNC 3 weeks ago. Last night I had dinner with a friend that tried for 3 years and is now pregnant with twins. I couldnt be happier for her but couldnt think to myself why did this happen to me.
I am hoping this pain that we both feel goes away soon.
I had my DnC 2 months ago now, the first month was the worst. I am now feeling back to myself the past few weeks. I had my post exam 4 weeks after DnC and my Dr did not exam me either. He said to wait 1-2 cycles. I wanted to wait only one but we missed the first one anyway due to my cycle being messed up. AF came back 5 weeks later.
I just got AF again yesterday so we hope to TTC again this month.
Please know it does get easier. Hormones are going crazy right now. It was hard for me to concentrate for me too for a few weeks, I teach, OMG it was so hard!!!
Glad you are doing ok after your DNC and everything is ok.
Thanks ladies. It's only been one week for me since this all happened. Last Wednesday started spotting, found out on Thursday that the baby had no HB and stopped developing at 7w 6d and last week I was 11w 4d and then Friday I had the d&e. I was a mess over the weekend and earlier this week but yesterday and today have been pretty good days. I hope this keeps up because I want to be back to normal. I am generally a pretty happy person and I hate feeling so sad all the time. I want to keep on keeping it together for my daughter too because she was also very sad for no brother or sister coming. I am excited for my hubby to come home because I really missed him this week.
I hope we never feel this sadness or pain again. It is a heartbreaking thing to go through this.
T&P for everyone finding themselves here on this board.
---------Game Over---------
Moving on as a family of 3
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This is actually my biggest fear. Riley(my daughter age 6) wants a sibling in the worst way. Because of this, we told her about my pregnancy so early, after the first ultrasound at 6 weeks. How dumb is that? I wish we wouldn't have told her.
T&P for the future for all of us.
Thanks guys.
Panther, how did he take it? My daughter brings it up now and then. It's only been a little over a week so I guess it's understandable. Its weird though, I have some times that it seems like it happened forever ago, sometimes it feels like it's just happened yesterday, sometimes it feels like I was never even pregnant and sometimes this feels like it happened to someone else. I never feel the same way the whole day through. I am all over the place. I am also having a lot of headaches and I have so much pressure in my eyes. I don't know if this is just allergies or something or if it's related to the whole thing.
I hate being at work. I dread tomorrow. I feel like I just want to wallow in my misery but I always put on a happy face for other people.
My husband and I had a fight today, we have been getting along so well and it took me by surprise. I feel like he's been my person through this whole thing and that he's the only person that can come close to feeling like I feel. The fight shook me and made me feel alone.
Sorry ladies, I'm not upbeat tonight.