DDing is rude

mightymousy · April 2013

Just FYI, you don't want people to voice their opinions, don't post.

mightymousy · April 2013

The thread was whining that her boss asked if she was pregnant because she was viewing the bump on her work computer at work where her boss could easily see. She was politely told it was kind of on her. So she DD'd

mightymousy · April 2013

katyj25:
mightymousy:
The thread was whining that her boss asked if she was pregnant because she was viewing the bump on her work computer at work where her boss could easily see. She was politely told it was kind of on her. So she DD'd
Boo. I was hoping that would be better. I'm bored.

LOL! yeah, definitely not exciting board drama.

lilkim444 · April 2013

I looked again at the abbreviation board and can't find it myself. What does DD mean?

mightymousy · April 2013

lilkim444:
I looked again at the abbreviation board and can't find it myself. What does DD mean?

Dirty Delete. It's when you post a thread, people take the time to respond, and then you delete the whole thread because you don't like the response.

lilkim444 · April 2013

Thanks! That would make sense why when I tried to find the thread again, I couldn't.

notkateanymore · April 2013

You mean somebody pointed out maybe you shouldn't be playing on the Bump at work?

Whitneytanke · April 2013

katyj25:
mightymousy:
The thread was whining that her boss asked if she was pregnant because she was viewing the bump on her work computer at work where her boss could easily see. She was politely told it was kind of on her. So she DD'd

Boo. I was hoping that would be better. I'm bored.

I know! 1st tri was a little crazy today.. But this board has been very surprisingly calm..

GeauxM&V · April 2013

mightymousy:
katyj25:
mightymousy:
The thread was whining that her boss asked if she was pregnant because she was viewing the bump on her work computer at work where her boss could easily see. She was politely told it was kind of on her. So she DD'd
Boo. I was hoping that would be better. I'm bored.
LOL! yeah, definitely not exciting board drama.

Aww man! Missed that one...

colleenandgeoff · April 2013

Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!

colleenandgeoff · April 2013

Loolaide:
colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!
This seems kind of sarcastic. I can imagine how the original post went.
I was too busy reading the screw you post all evening. That shiz was long.

Oh good gracious! Nope, it was genuinely meant. It's a bummer I need to clarify that, but there you go. Nice use of "shiz", though.

notkateanymore · April 2013

colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!

Oh my god. I am so tired of the whiney why can't we all support each other crap. Grow up and realize just because people don't agree with you doesn't mean we're horrible people.

Keithashleyl · April 2013

Well it was me who pointed out that personal CPU use at work is kind of fair game in the boss department. I certainly wasn't trying to be rude or nasty but just give a different viewpoint. Sorry if I hurt your feelings!

BoraBoraBaby · April 2013

colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!

This is definitely a scary and huge experience! I hope you get the support you're looking for on this forum because after all, that's what it's for. Happy baby journey to you too

I've seen some commenters get nasty and I don't understand why anyone would come to the bump with attitude against others going through this exhilarating experience but I've been able to tune it out and focus only on the things that benefit me. Hope you can too! HH9M!

aessary03 · April 2013

KateMW:
colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!
Oh my god. I am so tired of the whiney why can't we all support each other crap. Grow up and realize just because people don't agree with you doesn't mean we're horrible people.

O.M.G. So. This!

PinkCamino · April 2013

KateMW:
colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!
Oh my god. I am so tired of the whiney why can't we all support each other crap. Grow up and realize just because people don't agree with you doesn't mean we're horrible people.

Yes

mightymousy · April 2013

Not one of the comments posted were "nasty" first off. Secondly, no one gave you advice because there was none to give, your boss busted you, you came up with a believable excuse, move on.

ETA: quote fail!

mightymousy · April 2013

Loolaide:
colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!
This seems kind of sarcastic. I can imagine how the original post went.
I was too busy reading the screw you post all evening. That shiz was long.

oh geez, I missed that one!

MEP923 · April 2013

Loolaide:
colleenandgeoff:
Hi MM. Sorry my deletion bummed you out so much. I was asking for advice on dealing with my supervisor going forward, not help in blaming myself. Clearly I made a mistake pulling up the page even if it was outside office hours and not easily viewable. I started getting feedback unrelated to my request, some of which was unexpectedly nasty and didn't want that nonsense filling up my head space. I'm sure you understand- pregnancy can be stressful enough! It would be cool for us all to remember that treating each other with just a bit of kindness can go a long way. We're all embarking on a scary, huge, amazing journey, and the last thing we need to be is nasty to each other. Happy baby journey!
This seems kind of sarcastic. I can imagine how the original post went.
I was too busy reading the screw you post all evening. That shiz was long.

Oh man. What did I miss. Can anyone post a clicky? What board was it on??

ETA: I found it. Now I am behind on everything I needed to do today.

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