DH got home tonight after being at a range for 3 days. I was super excited for him to come home. I have been alone with DD for he past three days and I was really looking foreword to a little bit of help... And a shower. He gets home at 7 and I wanted to spend time with him so I ordered Chinese so I dicing have to cook and everything was fine. I got my shower and had to do the dishes real quick before feeding DD. I leave her with him for 10 min and then I hear him stomping out of the livin room and went outside... I asked him what was going on an he said that he couldn't watch her right now. Granted, DD is teething and is much fussier these days, but I know this I have been alone with no help or outlet for 3 days and nights, not to mention every other day for the last 5 months... Plus, she's really not that bad. Anyway, so I get ticked and explain to him that I just needed his help for a few more minutes so I can wash her bottles before she gets really fussy. And he storms into the bedroom slamming doors behind him. I put the baby in her bouncer an go after him. We argue a bit and I'm asking him what the deal is. And then he says tells me, "I can't deal with y'all right now, I need a break." I'm thinking, a break from what? You have been here for 2 hours... Then he continues to say that I shouldn't need his help because I quote, sit around all day and all I do is take care of Sarah, end quote. Omg are you effing kidding me? Yea, I watch her, and clean the house, pump every three hours, pay all the bills, run all the errands and do all the chores, all with a big smile on my face. He specifically said that he didn't want me to work after DD got here. He says that he just wanted to sit down, but when I talked to him earlier he said that they hadn't done anything at all and that he was super bored... I WISH I COULD BE BORED. Bored? What is that?? And then he locked himself in the bedroom leaving me to clean up the kitchen, feed the baby, pump and put her to bed, thanks a ton. All I wanted was a few minutes of help.
Sorry... That was long.