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Manda+pandaManda+panda member
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Just found out yesterday at 10w 5 days with my first that we lost the heartbeat. Had a strong one at 6 weeks 3days. Then at 9w my doctor couldn't get it on the Doppler. She said not to worry, so I didn't. But she didn't do a sonogram. Yesterday I was having light bleeding but severe back pain. So, I went to the ER. Within minutes they were doing the us. I knew something was wrong. They then did the TV ultrasound, and for minutes I sat there trying not to shake as I watched my baby and saw no heartbeat. Just to be sure I watched the ultrasound tech turn on the HB counter, and then I lost it.

Thank you for letting me share my experience. I'm lost. And I can't seem to put myself together for more than five seconds. I don't even know where to go from here.
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  • mara005mara005 member

    I'm so sorry for your loss ::hugs::

    I hope this board can be a help and support to you. 


    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!     

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  • Kay6519Kay6519 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers!
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  • lillinzloulillinzlou
    Ugh. Another fellow Nov 13er. I am so sorry for your loss. We'll be here for you.
    Conceived DD after 15 cycles--- TTC #2 since 11/10---Me- Poor egg quality and supply---DH- Poor count and motility---2 rounds 75IU Follistim/IUI-BFN---5/12 150IU Follistim/IUI-Over-produced! Converted to IVF! 0 fertilized:( Rescue ICSI performed. 2 embryos transfered-BFN

    ---------Game Over---------

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  • Manda+pandaManda+panda member
    Thank you all so much. I'm heading to my ob now for a follow up. I've only been spotting on and off. So I am nervous about all of this.
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  • kenzers88kenzers88 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • panther422516panther422516
    I'm.soo sorry for your loss....same thing happen to me at 11w5d no hb...I was alone and devistated. The women hear have been a big help...thoughts and prayers to u
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  • meggiebryantmeggiebryant member
    I'm so very sorry for your loss :(
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  • SerenlaSerenla member
    I'm so sorry for yor loss. I think I remember you from the Nov board, I'm sad to see you here. Please rest up and know that this is a great supportive group of women. I hope you find peace soon.



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
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  • caroeliz02caroeliz02 member
    So so sorry for your loss. You have come to a great place for support.
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  • HeyMrsPotterHeyMrsPotter member
    I'm so very sorry you're going through this. 
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  • mandiroomandiroo member
    I'm so sorry. Same thing happened to me at 10w 5d. I know how devastating that feeling is. Hugs and prayers to you. 
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  • Katie5295Katie5295 member
    So sorry your here. I have only just joined. All that can be said is how sorry I am for your loss : its devastating to go through. HUGS I wish I had stronger words..
    Daisypath Anniversary tickers November 22, 2012: Went into ER with spotting to discover my babies had stopped developing at 10 wks 4 days and 11 wks 3 days. Their hearts no longer beat. EDD:05/27/2013 Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers April 22, 2013: Found out I was miscarrying May 3, 2013:Saw baby in Utero and in tubes diagnosed with Heterotopic pregnancy May 7, 2013: Taken into surgery for tubal pregnancy baby and right tube was removed Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • tml0t21tml0t21 member
    Sorry for your loss. T&P for you.
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  • halfthetree halfthetree member
    I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending love and strength your way dear
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