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Stress from having a baby

littlemurphy2912littlemurphy2912 member
in Babies: 6 - 9 Months

Like my last post I posted last week...I am just curious to see if any other mommies/bumpies experience any of these types of things with their DH's or not. I am not judging anyone and I hope no other bumpies/mommies do it to anyone either as that is not my intend for this post. Just simply wondering.

Since having your first child do you find it difficult to communicate with your DH or for chores or errands to be done/get done without having to possibly disagree on it or get into an argument about it? Or for DH to become a little bit more lazy just from being exhausted with having a baby? Do you feel you and your DH are still on the same page with agreeing with mostly everything as you were pre-baby?

TIA

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  • danieliza1127danieliza1127 member
    My H just needs to be told what I need him to do.  We just had a good talk about this last Thursday evening.  He straight out told me that if I just tell what I need his help with, he will help.  He already cooks dinner on the nights that w
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  • ljanette85ljanette85 member

    the pregnancy and the first 6 months for us were HARD...we are argued so much that I thought that we would split up, it was awful! then around the 6 month point things just started to change. we didnt want that for ourselves or LO. no it depends mostly

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  • BeachBabe22BeachBabe22 member
    YES!!!  I am so beyond stressed out and my husband is calm as usual.  He is a really good dad but I do so much more for our daughter and around the house than he does.  I stay home with her and he works a lot so I feel like he thinks I sit
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  • KisstyKissty member

    imageBeachBabe22:
    YES!!!  I am so beyond stressed out and my husband is calm as usual.  He is a really good dad b

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  • MaggieF516MaggieF516 member
    We fought CONSTANTLY the first 6 months or so.  We are now just to the point where we are getting along great.  We had a lot of additional stresses (he started  a new job that is very stressful and demanding, works 70 plus hours a
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  • FTMCali13FTMCali13
    You're totally not alone! DH and I were a powerhouse duo pre baby and then baby came and even the strongest have issues! Buuut we are finding our groove too. Biggest issue was my DH his whole life needing a TON of sleep which we all know will not exist f
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  • ChristyMLChristyML

    I feel as though it is harder for me to communicate what I need to DH, and it makes our lives harder it seems. I am dealing with PPD though, so I'm not sure if this is from that, or if this is how life is supposed to be right now, kwim?

    I think o

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