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ugh...jury duty??

Hi Ladies!

Anyone have any suggestions for getting out of Jury duty?? I just received a summons and there will be no way I can go.  I am a SAHM and have no child care.  My mom could watch DS for a little while but physically could not all day.  I am pretty sure this won't matter but we are EBF ( I thought I read somewhere they just have to give you time to pump...ugh..).  Neither of these reasons are listed under the "reasons to be excused" so I am going to have to just mail a letter of explanation and just hope for the best.  I was just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this and how you handled it.....I am afraid I will write this letter and wind up saying the wrong thing. 

TIA!! :)

ETA: I am in Ohio if that matters...

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  • I thought being a sahm was an approved exception? I know it is in Texas, something about sole providor of child care.
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    I thought being a sahm was an approved exception? I know it is in Texas, something about sole providor of child care.<
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  • It's generally considered a valid excuse during baby's first year. Be sure to specify your LOs age, that you are EBF, and that you are currently a sahm with no child care resources. Send it ASAP in case they have any follow up.


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  • It really does vary from state to state and jurisdiction to jurisdiction. I was called when DS was an infant. I EBF and am a SAHM. I was selected for a jury, and DH ended up taking off from work for the three days I had to serve so he could stay with DS.
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  • Someone posted a link to a La Leche page that discussed jury duty and BFing laws in different states. I wish I could find it and make a clicky, but I'm on my phone.

    I really hope you can get out. It'd be such a nightmare to be called!!
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  • There was a post similar to this not too long ago, but she was in MA.

    This is where I always look up breastfeeding laws by state: https://www.nc

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    Someone posted a link to a La Leche page that discussed jury duty and BFing laws in different states. I wish I could
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  • I wrote this same post six or so weeks ago. I wrote in saying I was EBF, stay at home mom of a newborn, with no reliable childcare. I had also served on a jury less than two years ago, but in a different court. 

    Your post reminded me that I

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  • I know some states will excuse you from jury duty for breastfeeding but I don't think Ohio is one of them (at least it's not a law yet).  I was just summoned for jury duty last month but was excused due to having gestational diabetes and having to

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  • I was called to do it RIGHT after my daughter was born.  All I did was send the letter back asking for a deferral because I had just had a baby.  It got accepted and was no issue (until I got called to do it again after my son was born lol). &nb
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  • imageDragonfly1226:
    It really does vary from state to state and jurisdiction to jurisdiction. I was called when DS was an infant. I
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • Thanks for all the insight ladies!

    Does anyone think I should include a copy of his birth certificate so they know I am not lying or do you think I should tell them to let me know if they need any additional info/proof?

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    Thanks for all the insight ladies!

    Does anyone think I should include a copy of his birth certificate so they k

    Married 9/19/09
    Me (32) Dx PCOS, DH (32) SA = Normal/mild morph issues
    TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
    TTC#1  starting Nov. 2009
    3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui
    TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12 
    TTC#3 July 2014 - Metformin +TI = BFP at 9dpo - Twins, one baby lost at 5.5 weeks 
    Macy Annabelle born at 37w4d on 4/29/15.  Diagnosed with Cri du Chat and passed away on 6/6/15.  Forever in our hearts.
    TTC#4 3rd cycle of Metformin + Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 3 follies = BFP on 12/24/16
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