Late Term and Child Loss

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Hello all. My name is Kimberly and I lost my Henry 3/24. Henry was 19 days old and we think it's SIDS, but we do not know for sure. I am so lost and I miss him so much. I keep thinking about the what if's, and it just breaks my heart. His funeral was so difficult for me, and I hate that instead of having his birth certificate, I have a death certificate. My son was supposed to bury me, and cry in people's arms. I wanted to see him go to school, get married, and have children. I actually went to a medium and she told me things that nobody would know, and knew I lost my son before I even sat down. I wish I could say she gave me comfort, but I just want to know that he's okay. I feel like he needs me because I knew him best, and I loved him first. Thanks for listening. I know this is kind of all over the place and I finally got the courage to post here. 

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  • I am so very very sorry for your devastating loss of Henry. We are so very sorry to welcome you here, but please know this is a place where you can be free to cry, scream, question and find comfort. This board is sometimes slow, but is a great support. Bi
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  • I'm so very sad to welcome you to our board. We are a unique set of mommys on here and we get every emotion your going through. Feel free to let it all out here and reach out to any of us. I've met some really sweet people on this board who have helped

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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious son, Henry.  I hope you'll find comfort on this board.  I can relate to many of your feelings, as I'm sure most of us can.  Welcome.
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  • Hi, so sorry for the loss of your baby Henry. I remember you from the March board....my daughter was stillborn on March 2nd. I'm so sorry that you are on this board. Wonderful people and support though. I encourage you to go to support groups, a therap

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  • Kimberly, I am so sorry that Henry is not here with you. It is so shocking and hurts so bad when we lose our babies. It's just not fair at all. You have every right to be all over the place, I am glad you posted here. I will be thinking of you and Henry.
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  • Im so sorry for your loss.  No mom should ever have to experience this! You definitely found the right place and we are here to comfort you in any way we can.  Don't be afraid to come here and talk about Henry.  There are going to be man

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  • Thank you ladies for making me feel so welcome. I went to see him today and I couldn't fight back my tears. I know wherever he is, he will never feel pain, sorrow, hurt, or anything negative, but why do I feel this way? Ugh. 
  • I'm so, so sorry for the loss of your precious Henry. My son, Devon, was born sleeping in August, and I remember feeling the same exact way you do - it hurts so much, even though you know that your son is safe and loved in another place. I lost Devon e

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  • Kimberly,

    I am so sorry for the loss of your precious Henry. No mother should ever have to go through what we are all going through. I hope you find some peace and comfort here.

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  • Thank you ladies so much for the support. 
  • I'm very sorry for your loss. My son was 36 days old when he became an angel. We thought for sure it was going to be SIDS but it ended up being RSV. If you want or need to talk to someone who also brought their child home only to lose them, feel free to P

     

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  • I am so so sorry fo the loss of your sweet boy Henry. You are among friends we are all here for you and will be here if and when you need us!! Huge Hugs!!!! Heather
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  • I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your son, Henry.  You have come to a great board for support, I wish I did not have to welcome you here.  ((HUGE HUGS)).
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of you sweet baby boy, Henry. As PP have said, I hate to welcome you to the board, but know that we all understand the pain of losing our precious child(ren).

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