Baby Names

naming baby after yourself

Well, technically the middle name!  I know it is very common for men to give their son's their own first name as the baby's middle name.  In fact, my husband is really looking forward to doing this with a potential son.  My question is- what do you think of mothers doing the same with their daughters?

My husband really wants to give the baby my name as her middle name.  The name would be Natalie Michelle.  While I think the name flows really nicely together I don't want friends and family that learn her name to side-eye it.  Would you give me the side-eye? 

 ETA: to completely clarify that my first name is Michelle. She wouldn't be a junior. My other middle name option is Kimberly after my mom, which is my first choice but doesn't flow really well. 

 

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  • Meh...  It's a pretty normal name.  I wouldn't side-eye.

    Side-eye goes to things that go against my naming rules (rules that I personally use for choosing my children's names).   

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  • I'm not a fan of juniors, in general, but I don't side-eye naming after parents and I see no difference between passing down mom's name vs. dad's name. 
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  • I wouldn't side-eye it, but it's pretty common in my family to do this.
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  • I wouldn't side eye you at all.

    I have friends whose son has the father's first name in the MN spot and a daughter who has the mother's first name in the MN spot.  I think it's great if everyone is on board.

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  • I would not side-eye this.  In fact, just last week I friend named their daughter Lucy Jane, with Jane benig the mom's first name, and I thought to myself how cute that was.

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  • I think its fine. We had planned to give our DD my middle name but couldn't last minute bc it conflicted with her first name.
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  • I wouldn't side-eye you at all.  My middle name/DD's middle name (Christine) is my mom's first name.  I like it.
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  • I think this is perfectly fine. I find it more odd when people chose a first and middle name that have absolutely no family connection or special meaning whatsoever - they just chose it because it sounds nice to them. Ideally I think the middle name sh

  • I did it.  My daughters MN is my FN.  I don't think I'm "so amazing" that I needed to name her after me though, I just love the way the name flows and like giving her a little bit of me in her name.

    Also, if we ever have a boy, DH has

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    I'm not a fan of juniors, in general, but I don't side-eye naming after parents and I see no difference between pass
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    My mother has the same first name and a sliiiiight variation in middle name from my grandmother.

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  • My cousin and his wife gave their own middle names to their DD and DS. I know you're asking about first names, but I honestly think it's fine. 
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  • I have my mom's FN as my MN and like that I share that with her, so I definitely wouldn't side-eye it. 

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  • I think it's ok for this one case. My mil and fil have 4 kids and they named all 4 of them after themselves in some way. I think that's pretty obnoxious tbh.

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  • My DD's mn is the same as mine, my moms, my grandma and my great grandma (Elizabeth). I love it.

    If I have another girl I'd actually like hers to be Elizabeth too, but not sure.

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  • We are giving our baby girl my middle name as her middle name. I wanted to use my moms middle name but she doesn't have one. I don't think its out of the ordinary or anything weird.

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  • I wouldn't side eye it, I have had several cousins give their daughters their FN as a MN.

    I wouldn't technically do this myself, but I have a flower name and we might use a flower name somewhere if we have a daughter. So it would be her own name

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  • I wouldn't side eye you. I think it's cute.
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  • DD has my first name as her middle name. 
    Nobody has side-eyed. At least not that I'm aware of.

     

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  • I don't it's a bad idea. We will use my MN (which was also my mothers) and my DH's MN (which was also his fathers) for future children.
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  • I wouldn't side eye it at all. I think it is cute :)

    I do side-eye a friend of mine though, who has she ENTIRE name (first, middle, and last) in the names of her two daughters.

    Her DD#1 has mom's maiden name as her first name and same MN.<

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  • It sounds fine to me! If men can do it, so can we!! My partner wants to use my middle name as a girl's middle name....we'll see.
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