October 2011 Moms

I just bit the dust...

Another one down. I got two BFPs today. Totally unexpected and I am freaking the fluck out. Dh and I have always just used condoms, but we had some drunk sloppy sex. I feel like an idiot. Apparently I need to go back to eighth grade health class. Someone tell me it will be alright and hold my hand. Our house is small, three kids won't fit in our cars, we are still paying off C's hospital bills from the NICU, and we wanted to wait at least another year.  I can't tell anyone IRL and I have to get it off my chest. I really just feel so stupid. Like, remember the time when you were 20 and got ktfu by surprise? Didn't remember how that happened? 
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  • O_O and congrats?!

    It'll be ok because, well, it has to be ok, right? What else are ya gonna do, pack up and move to a commune? It'll be fine.
    July 20th, 2012: Never forget the day the fb douchebags tried so hard, but ultimately failed. Viva la October 2011! Yeah, I called you douchebags.

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  • It's ok to side eye the sh!t out of me now, I totally would be too.
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  • My MiL always said that there is a good reason it takes babies about 10 months to grow, and it's not just for the good of the baby. She may pronounce "ibuprofen" as "iboopoferin," and call her sons by names of family dogs that have been dead at least 10 y
    July 20th, 2012: Never forget the day the fb douchebags tried so hard, but ultimately failed. Viva la October 2011! Yeah, I called you douchebags.

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  • Wow what news! I'd be freaking out too. And I guess congrats? You will find a way to work everything out. Will be thinking of you!!


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    I'm just imagining having drunk sex with your husband right now. Oh, and congratulations!
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  • Oh Sweetie, it will be ok. Congrats. You guys make such cute babies!!!!
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  • I'd be shytting my pants too, so no judgement from me. You'll get through this just fine! 

    Might I suggest Richard as a possible name? I mean, the child does come from a long line of meaty wieners. 

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  • No side eye from me! 9 months is a long time to get stuff in order. Everything will work out. Congratulations!
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  • Thank you ladies for the support. I really needed it. You are honestly helping me through my freak out.
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  • You really want to get out of the battle of the corn queen, huh?

    Don't fret too much, Tysons. Congratulations, and just know you have support here regardless how over the moon you are or aren't.


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  • Once the initial shock is gone, you will be fine. Congrats!
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  • Congratulations! Although you maybe freaking out, pp are right you have 9 months to figure it all out!
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  • Congratulations Tysons! It will all be OK, things will work out :)
      
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  • Congrats! You aren't getting the side eye from me. A friend of mine unexpectedly got pregnant with baby three and was freaking out. On his first birthday, she wrote a blog about sitting in a hotel room, during a pit stop on vacation, and getting the resul
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  • It will all be ok <holds your hand> Congrats !!

    I am jealous of all you ladies that get pregnant so easily, I want drunken sex to end up being baby sex dammit! 


  • No side eye fom me. You're not the first person to have a surprise BFP and you won't be the last so try not to be so hard on yourself. I don't blame you for freaking out. I would be too. You'll make it work though. People do it all the time in the same ty
  • It's going to be more than ok; it's going to be great!  You'll figure everything out and wonder why you were freaking out in the first place.  Congrats-wishing you a happy and stress-free 9 months!
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  • Congratulations!  As others have said, you will figure it out.  Don't be too hard on yourself or feel stupid!! 
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  • No side eye here! Congratulations! Like everyone else said you have time to figure it out. Hugs!!
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  • Definitely no side-eye here.  The one that's coming next month was a big surprise too.  I felt really dumb and cried A LOT for longer than would probably be socially acceptable.  I think back on that night of good lovin' when I pass myse

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  • It will all work out....    Congrats and an happy and healthy 9 to you.
  • I think one of my friends said it well in response to alcohol = pregnancy..."Don't you know...that is how babies are made!"  I wish you a very happy and healthy 9 mos and I am sure it will go well once you have time to get over the shock. We are all
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    Once the initial shock is gone, you will be fine. Congrats!


    This exactly! Congrats
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  • congratulations! h&h 9 to you! :) it'll be just fine, no worries!
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  • 1st of all: Congrats !

    2ndly: Things will definitely be ok. Once the initial shock wears off, you will be able to start to think of how to arrange things to accomodate the new LO.



    "Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
    "Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
  • Oh wow!  It'll be ok!  Congrats girl!

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  • Congrats! I'm definitely not judging as I'd be freakin' the F out! 

    I completely agree with PP's though, you have 9 months to figure it all out. You can do this! It will be ok... 

  • Congrats!  Three kids don't fit in our cars well either!
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  • Thanks so much everyone so much! I am already feeling better about it. Dh gave me a pep talk last night. Now I just have to eventually work up the  courage to tell.work I will be gone for Christmas again. 
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  • Congratulations! Take a deep breath.  What's done is done and it will all work out perfectly.  My wife was the youngest of 9 in a 2 bedroom.  No lie, her bed was in the closet in her parents room.  She is well adjusted, successful,

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  • Congrats!
  • You get no side-eyes from me. We're actively preventing, and I've already POAS 2x to make sure I'm not KU. I'd be more confident if I were on the pill, but it made me bat $hit crazy, so I can't. Other methods are inherently less reliable -- particularl

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    You get no side-eyes from me. We're actively preventing, and I've already POAS 2x to make sure I'm not KU. I'd

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  • Congrats!  I know it must be nerve-wracking, but I think you'll be fine.  I've heard that once you have two kids and you've gotten used to the constant multi-tasking and juggling, that three just kind of falls into place.  I have no pe
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    Yeah,  my dh seriously said to me, "But I pulled out!". We were pretty sloshed. J was a pull and pray drunk

  • You will survive.  I felt the exact same way when we got ku with Jack. Lincoln was 4.5 months old.  Doh!  You'll eventually adjust and things end up working themselves out.  Hang in there!
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