Another one down. I got two BFPs today. Totally unexpected and I am freaking the fluck out. Dh and I have always just used condoms, but we had some drunk sloppy sex. I feel like an idiot. Apparently I need to go back to eighth grade health class. Someone tell me it will be alright and hold my hand. Our house is small, three kids won't fit in our cars, we are still paying off C's hospital bills from the NICU, and we wanted to wait at least another year. I can't tell anyone IRL and I have to get it off my chest. I really just feel so stupid. Like, remember the time when you were 20 and got ktfu by surprise? Didn't remember how that happened?
Re: I just bit the dust...
It'll be ok because, well, it has to be ok, right? What else are ya gonna do, pack up and move to a commune? It'll be fine.
BFP 1/18/11, EDD 10/1/11. Born at 37w5d on 9/15/11.
***BFP Chart***
"There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.
BFP 1/18/11, EDD 10/1/11. Born at 37w5d on 9/15/11.
***BFP Chart***
"There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning.
DS born Oct. '11
TTC #2 with PCOS since Nov. '13
Dx: Low Progesterone (3.3) on 8/12/14
Waiting for RE appointment on 10/28/14
Surprise BFP on cycle 12 -- 10/19/14!
EDD July 1, 2015
I'd be shytting my pants too, so no judgement from me. You'll get through this just fine!
Might I suggest Richard as a possible name? I mean, the child does come from a long line of meaty wieners.
Don't fret too much, Tysons. Congratulations, and just know you have support here regardless how over the moon you are or aren't.
It will all be ok <holds your hand> Congrats !!
I am jealous of all you ladies that get pregnant so easily, I want drunken sex to end up being baby sex dammit!
Definitely no side-eye here. The one that's coming next month was a big surprise too. I felt really dumb and cried A LOT for longer than would probably be socially acceptable. I think back on that night of good lovin' when I pass myse
This exactly! Congrats
1st of all: Congrats !
2ndly: Things will definitely be ok. Once the initial shock wears off, you will be able to start to think of how to arrange things to accomodate the new LO.
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
Congrats! I'm definitely not judging as I'd be freakin' the F out!
I completely agree with PP's though, you have 9 months to figure it all out. You can do this! It will be ok...
Congratulations! Take a deep breath. What's done is done and it will all work out perfectly. My wife was the youngest of 9 in a 2 bedroom. No lie, her bed was in the closet in her parents room. She is well adjusted, successful,
You get no side-eyes from me. We're actively preventing, and I've already POAS 2x to make sure I'm not KU. I'd be more confident if I were on the pill, but it made me bat $hit crazy, so I can't. Other methods are inherently less reliable -- particularl