So what exactly do you even have at one? I don't remember my niece's at all and we couldn't go to my nephew's 'cause we moved into our house the same day, so I don't remember what you have at them besides choice of food and a cake...
It's at our house, planning on having simple lunch stuff that I'm making myself and a cake.
What did you do?
Re: Baptisms
We had lunch / dinner at a local restaurant and we brought in a cake.
We would have done it at our house but our church is about an hour from where we live (we recently moved and didn't become members at our local church yet).