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samantha5110samantha5110 member
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So, I've been torn between doing another IUI in two weeks, or trying a new diet, which isn't healthy to do while pregnant. I would like to lose 10-20 pounds. I just need the confidence that I am making the right decision by losing the weight now, rather than later. I feel horrible because i've wanted a baby for so long, and I feel bad putting off a little longer. But I know in the end, if I am healthy and happy in a few months and I get pregnant, my pregnancy should be much easier. I have chronic knee dislocation, so my body wouldn't be able to handle pregnancy weight on top of what I am now. Please let me know if you think I'm doing the right thing. I'm just ready for something positive to happen in my life!! Losing a few pounds, pregnancy, ANYTHING!!
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    stinkerbell6879stinkerbell6879 member
    Well you need to do what feels best to you. I will say that if you think it will give you that boost of knowing you feel healthy and ready to carry a pregnancy then I'd take the time off, and enjoy it! Taking the edge off thinking of IF and focus on yours

    April 2013 DE IVF= BFN

    September 2013 DE IVF (Fingers Crossed) = BFFFN! again...

    October 2013 FET of our last 2 = Beta Hellzz for 6-7 Weeks. M/C

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    liz4pawsliz4paws member

    imagestinkerbell6879:
    Well you need to do what feels best to you. I will say that if you think it will give you that boost of knowi

    ************ Signature/Ticker Warning ************
     Me (32) DH (36) - Finding our way to baby #1
     Me: POF/DOR - AMH <0.16, heterozygous c677t MTHFR, insulin resistant and gluten intolerant
     DH: Severe MFI

     12/2/11 - IUI #1- BFN 
    8/1/12 - IVF #1 - Zero response from max stims (600iu intramuscularly)
    My ovaries are just for decoration

     12/6/12 - Adopted five embryos that had been frozen for over ten years!
     2/11/13 - DEmbryo FET #1 Thawed four, sadly two didn't survive. Transferred two beautiful blasts. 
     2/16/13 - First BFP of my life @ 6dp5dt! EDD 10/30/13
     3/27/13 - After beta and u/s hell, no heartbeat ever detected. D&C at 9w1d.

    6/5/13 - Adopted four new embryos that had been frozen for seven years!      
    9/12/13 - DEmbryo FET #2. Thawed and transferred two beautiful blasts
    9/17/13 - BFP @ 5dp6dt! EDD 05/31/14
     9/29/13 - m/c @ 5w1d. :(

    11/19/13 - DEmbryo FET #3. Thawed and transferred one blast from each batch. Wow!
     11/23/13 - BFP @ 4dp6dt! EDD 8/7/13
    Beta #1 @ 13dp6dt - 522  Beta #2 @ 16dp6dt - 1373 
    6w5d ultrasound showed one perfect baby with a beautiful heartbeat of 134bpm!

    Snowflake baby is a girl! 
    Our beautiful Snowflake girl arrived on July 22, 2014!   
     My embryo adoption blog: Wishing on a Snowflake
      
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    ladyrader0227ladyrader0227 member
    Agree- follow your heart on this. Do what you need to do to be happy

    Me:37 (DOR), DH: 40 (Normal) TTC #1 since Fall 2010
    2010-2012 - 7 rounds of Clomid, 4 IUI & 2 IVF - all BFN (2 chemical pregnancies)
    April 2013 fresh DEgg - 15R, 4F, 2 transferred = BFN.  
    FET - 11/13
    Beta #1 11/23 = 247; Beta #2 11/25 = 538; Beta #3 11/29 = 5481 BFP!!!!!
    U/s #1 12/7 & U/s #2 12/16 = One perfect little heart beat!! 
    EDD = 8/1/14

    Hope is the thing with feathers - that perches in the soul - and sings the tune without the words - and never stops - at all - (Emily Dickinson)

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