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The gap between ceremony and reception...what do you do during that time besides change apparently? Why the gap? I assume it's a mostly Catholic thing and mass is usually early Saturday afternoons right? It is very much a Northern thing. Never seen it down here!

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  • ta78ta78 member

    Here, most weddings have pictures inbetween. Family, wedding party.. etc. There is also the certificate signing and I think a few minutes for the couple to be alone. Everyone else has cocktail hour before the main reception/dinner.

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  • imageta78:

    Here, most weddings have pictures inbetween. Family, wedding party.. etc. There is also the certificate signing and I

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  • I've been to few weddings without that gap and yes, it's a mostly Catholic thing, although the wedding I'm going to in June will have a gap and it's not a religious ceremony (it's taking place at their college chapel and will be an interfaith ceremony)

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    Im in new england and i have been to a handful of wedding like that. I think its mostly th Wu could only get the church at this time and the reception hall at this time.
    One time we went toba bbq inbetween and that was a ton of fun bc we were all d
  • We took pictures while our guests had cocktail hour
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  • imageletranger:
    We did catholic mass. Ended 430. Reception started at 5 went to 10 then my FIL rented out the top floor of nearby b
  • Ugh, I'm going to be honest, I hate gaps.  Hate 'em.  And I don't understand the purpose.  I understand that some ceremonies have to be at a certain time, but I don't understand why the reception can't immediately follow. 

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    Ugh, I'm going to be honest, I hate gaps.  Hate 'em.  And I don't understand the purpose.  I understa

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    ETA: I believe the big gap that often comes w/ catholic weddings is b/c they will only allow a ceremony to start so lat
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  • We are Catholic, but our parish has a small church downstairs that is used for weekly masses and a huge, ornate upper church used for holy days, holidays and weddings.  So we chose to have our ceremony at 4 and we had the reception at 6. The brida

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  • Ok, this is all basically what I thought, just wanted to make sure. I thought the gap was totally odd before I came here, but now I get it. I like any excuse for a bar, so I'd be down with it...except maybe the next 9 months.
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    Ok, this is all basically what I thought, just wanted to make sure. I thought the gap was totally odd before I came he
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    Ok, this is all basically what I thought, just wanted to make sure. I thought the gap was totally odd before I came he
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  • Yeah, we took our pictures in between. And some family and friends went to set up the final things at the reception location, and make sure everything was on tract with the caterer. 

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  • DH and I are Agnostic, so getting married in a church wasn't even something we considered.  Our ceremony and reception were in the same place.  We got married outside on the huge front lawn, did a receiving line of just DH and I into the insi

  • It's the norm around here.  Well, at least for Catholic weddings.

    We had a Mass at 1pm and reception did not start until 6pm. 

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  • imageCnAmom:
    I just assumed that most people did pictures between the ceremony and reception. But I didn't have a "real" wedding, s
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  • We did pictures after the ceremony. So we didn't get to the reception until much later.  When else are you supose to take the group pics?  We took as many as we could before the ceremony...but not any with bride and groom together, so all with m
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  • imageryry1977:
    We did pictures after the ceremony. So we didn't get to the reception until much later.  When else are you supo
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  • We had an afternoon Catholic Mass and the reception was immediately after.  I mean, all the guests went to the reception location and mingled...my brother chauffeured DH and I around for about 20 minutes and we made an "entrance" :-P  I wouldn't
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  • imageryry1977:
    We did pictures after the ceremony. So we didn't get to the reception until much later.  When else are you supo
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