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Medicaid?

frankka01frankka01 member
in September 2013 Moms
Okay. So SO and I aren't yet married. And because of that, I cannot be on his insurance. I also qualify for Medicaid and planned on doing that until LO arrived. Well everything has been set up but I got a letter in the mail saying that because I don't turn 21 until after the baby is born, that they have to take my mom for child support? I haven't lived with my mom since I was fifteen and do not agree with this in the slightest. My mom is gonna flip when she finds out and think that I'm the one doing it and not that it's mandatory. We have planned on getting married, but with everything else that has been going on, it hasn't been a main priority. I don't really know what to do because I have to return the paper filled out and signed within seven days. That's not long enough to get married and switch over by my next appointment.
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  • Tally879Tally879 member
    I really have no idea how applying for Medicaid works, but try talking to Planned Parenthood they may be able to give you advice.  Also, depending on what state your in, I know it's true for Massachusetts, you can be put on your SO's insurance if you
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  • Marley629Marley629 member
    I work for Medicaid here in NJ and have never come across that. I have come across taking bf or SO to court for child support to qualify but not mother. I would request to speak to a supervisor and explain your whole situation to them at least to get a se
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  • SweetPeaK26SweetPeaK26 member
    You could do a quickie wedding. In my state, Missouri, you can get a license and married in about a 4 hour time span! You wouldn't even have to tell people, just do it for the insurance.
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    imageSweetPeaK26:
    You could do a quickie wedding. In my state, Missouri, you can get a license and married in about a 4 hour time span!

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    imagetwolittlewheels:
    Even if you do the quickie wedding, you might have to wait to get on H's insurance.  And, even if you do
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  • coraggiosacoraggiosa member

    imageSweetPeaK26:
    You could do a quickie wedding. In my state, Missouri, you can get a license and married in about a 4 hour time s

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  • JocelynB0911JocelynB0911 member

    imagetwolittlewheels:
    Even if you do the quickie wedding, you might have to wait to get on H's insurance.  And, even if you do
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  • kennazebrowskykennazebrowsky member

    I think that you have to provide a letter showing that you no longer rely on her for support. I had to do this with my first. I was 20 while pregnant and then turned 21 a few weeks after he was born. Of course this was like 12 years ago.

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  • catknickcatknick member
    They can't disqualify you for preexisting conditions anymore sine Obamacare
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  • jpress22jpress22 member
    imagecatknick:
    They can't disqualify you for preexisting conditions anymore sine Obamacare


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  • lazairicalazairica member
    It's actually called The Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act.... NOT "Obama care".
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