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Separation anxiety

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I wrote a few days ago about being nervous when MH goes back to work on Monday.  But in addition to the worry I have about being alone, I am feeling what I can only describe as separation anxiety at the thought of him being gone all day.

 We've never been a couple that spends a ton of time together....we have our together time but we each have our own time.  But we've been together for the last two weeks and I get very emotional whenever I think of him not being with me all day.  It's almost like a "homesick" feeling.  Did anyone else experience anything like this?

 

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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    Yep! He is at work right now and I try and keep distracted so I don't think about it. I feel very dependent on him. It WILL get easier. I suggest doing little steps. Have him go to the store, or out to visit friends or something so you have some practice

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    Yes, I still do feel like this from time to time. I figured out that its because I'm so scared of something happening to him too. DH is my rock, my anchor. I would not have survived losing Ian if not for my DH. It has gotten better but it took a while. I

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  • NoetholaNoethola member

    Yes. There are still times when I wish he was here when he is working or coaching in the evenings. You have been through a traumatic experience, and it is normal to cling to those who you have experienced traumatic things with. It is true that it

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  • jebretzjebretz member

    Totally!  We spent so much time together over the holidays before, and then the weeks after our loss, so it was difficult to be gone all day.  We don't normally talk, but I find myself calling and texting more even now. I agree with pp's that

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    I know exactly how you feel. I cried every morning that he left me to go to work. It was hard. I almost felt abandoned and had to deal with everything by myself. But he would call me numerous times during the day to check in on me.

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