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I knew there was a reason I wasn't having sex

PrettyInPearls23PrettyInPearls23 member
in September 2013 Moms

It's been like 4 weeks since DH and I have had sex, mostly because I feel fat and disgusting and anything but in the mood. His work schedule doesn't help either, Anyway, last night I just sucked it up and made myself get in the mood because I knew DH deserved it. He's been so patient with me :)

Now I have brown spotting. I'm sure it's nothing, but it's not helping my sex drive to return at all. *sigh*

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  • kennazebrowskykennazebrowsky member
    We haven't been either, but my hubby is so scared he is gonna hurt the baby. It's his first so he down really know what to expect at all with anything. Drives me crazy!
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  • babybird12babybird12 member
    I wouldn't worry much.... but I know how you feel. I feel bad for DH because I almost have to force myself to be "in the mood"

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  • KristinandcodyKristinandcody
    That was me the first trimester. I had zero sex drive, but now I want it daily! My DH is not complaining at all. My drive came back with a vingence! Just sucks he's gone two weeks at a time
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  • ladibugg83ladibugg83 member
    I've been on pelvic rest for 7 weeks now. Trying to find other ways to be intimate!
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  • Juicy71Juicy71 member
    We haven't had sex at all since I got pregnant (and actually since BEFORE we got pregnant since we did IVF).  We've now been cleared to have sex (variety of reasons we couldn't) and DH said to me the other day "now that I've felt the baby, it kind of
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  • CalMum_MommaCalMum_Momma

    Sorry momma!

    First tri is usually a bust for me between the all day nausea and exhaustion, but once we're in the clear, there is nothing better than pregnancy sex!! Right up to the very end, as much as I can get it! DH better enjoy it while it la

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  • smilormariesmilormarie member
    I think mine has been due to low back pain.  I think I have it under control now so I'm gonna get all geared up for when hubby gets home this weekend.
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  • diablessediablesse member

    My high school friend is an Ob surgeon.  He told me that any spotting you see now (during the 2nd trimester) is blood that was going to come out anyway and that nothing you did caused it.  He told me this to clam me down and it helped a lot.

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  • PrettyInPearls23PrettyInPearls23 member
    imagediablesse:

    My high school friend is an Ob surgeon.  He told me that any spotting you see now (during the 2nd trimester) i

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  • Surfergirl013Surfergirl013 member

    sorry you are going through this! 

    I have been on pelvic rest since my BFP , and DH has been awesome about it.,I had zero sex drive because of being so nauseous, and now it is all I can think about:)  Asking the dr about it Wednesday<im

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  • diablessediablesse member
    imagePrettyInPearls23:

    Thank you! I wasn't overly worried since it's only very light brown spotting, but I did still have a mini pa

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  • Singer987Singer987 member
    I freaked out when that happened to me a few weeks ago. I actually started crying but it went away and baby is fine. :) The cervix is so sensitive right now.
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  • bumpuser9130703bumpuser9130703 member

    imageladibugg83:
    I've been on pelvic rest for 7 weeks now. Trying to find other ways to be intimate!

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