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Is my Husband alone in thinking this?

zsynezzsynez
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Everytime I have pregnancy complaint; pain, heartburn, tired, headache ect. My husband gets upset and assumes that I am not happy to be pregnant and it was a mistake. Is he alone in thinking like this? How can I explain it in a way to help him understand that this is hard (and I don't think I should have to pretend it isn't) but that does not mean I am not exstatic to have his son?
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Re: Is my Husband alone in thinking this?

  • ColtsdadColtsdad member

    There was a stretch where I felt like your husband.  She was dealing with some issues and pains and talking about them, which I don't blame her for, but all I heard was the negative.  I know that being pregnant isn't all rainbows and puppy do

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  • zsynezzsynez
    Thank you
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  • LuckyDadLuckyDad member
    I have to ask, was he on board for this pregnancy, or was it a surprise or something you talked him into? I feel like I'm detecting some projection on his part.
    https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BhqjipgCIAAOz7H.jpg
    -My son was born in April 2012. He pretty much rules.
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  • JacksDadJacksDad
    I was like this the entire pregnancy. Any little pain, or anything she'd mention, I'd feel responsible for.
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  • zsynezzsynez
    He was all for it. Didnt even want to wait until we married.
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  • LuckyDadLuckyDad member

    imagezsynez:
    He was all for it. Didnt even want to wait until we married.

    Ah. Well, then it's probably str

    https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BhqjipgCIAAOz7H.jpg
    -My son was born in April 2012. He pretty much rules.
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