Success after IF

Intro!

It's amazing to be able to intro over here with you ladies! I remember introing on PAIF and while it was exciting, my first post was also hesitant and anxiety ridden. Not so today!

After 3 years of TTC, DH and I welcomed our baby girl Grace on April 10th after 2 rounds of IVF. She is truly a miracle and I can't stop staring at her! I posted my birth story on PAIF:

https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/73344199/ShowThread.aspx#73344199

(Sorry can't make it clicky!) 

We are home now and she is loving breastfeeding. So far so good! Unfortunately she is continuing to lose weight, so we have daily pedi visits for now. Hopefully that will resolve soon. Pedi says I am producing enough milk and baby loves to eat, so to hold off on introducing formula for now.

Now for the questions!

How early did you begin pumping? I will mostly EBF, but would love for DH to feed her too.

When/how did you start to establish a night time routine? I'm totally lost on this. 

dx: MFI 0% morph & low count. Occasional Anovulatory cycles.

TTC #1
  • IVF #1 4/21/12 - c/p
  • IVF#2 8/1/12 - BFP! DD arrived 4/10/2013.

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TTC #2
  • FET #1 3/18/14 - BFP! DS arrived 11/19/2014.

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  • Congratulations!

    I was never able to successfully bf, but I don't think it's ever too early to start pumping too.  Just do it after you've already fed Grace.  I always produced more in the morning, and have heard other women say that

                          

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  • I started pumping after his lunchtime meal around 4 weeks. He gets a couple bottles from DH a week. I wish it had started sooner and that he got more bottles, but in hindsight I can see their point about waiting for my supply to even out with his needs an
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  • Nice seeing you over here lady :)

    I am of no help with your questions since I'm less than 2 weeks ahead of you.

    I will tell you - I have not actively started pumping yet but am planning on starting this week as long as everything goes ok at


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  • Good to see you over here!

    I had to start pumping when she was 3 days old. I had so many problems getting breastfeeding started. Be encouraged, it will get better!

    We don't really have much of a bedtime routine. She usually goes
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  • Hi PennyLane,

    Welcome & congrats on the birth of Grace!

    To answer your questions, my LC said not to pump until at least 4 weeks pp.

    We started a bedtime "routine" at 4wks, but that was more for us than for M!  We just wanted

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    Welcome and congratulations!

    I'm not BFing anymore but I started pumping at about a week to try to up my supply.

    H pretty much set his own routine for a while and it's stuck for the most part. He eats between 9 and 9:30 then goe

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  • Congrats and welcome!

    If your milk supply is good, wait until after the 3 week growth spurt to start pumping. Then start with one pump a day after your first morning feed. If your supply were low you would want to start pumping sooner and mo
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  • I would start pumping probably around a month or so. I know your DH is probably wanting to help feed but I think it's very important to establish bfing first then worry about adding in bottles. When you do start pumping I would do it after the morning fee
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  • Congrats, Penny! Welcome!

    I started pumping right away because J had a tongue tie and couldn't latch. 

    We started a nighttime routine with night diaper, nightgown, nursing, then snuggling with sleep sheep whale noise  until she fa

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  • Congratulations!

    I am so sorry to hear your LO is having a hard time gaining weight.  I hope things change quickly for you!

    As far as pumping goes, I started just before 2 weeks because I was having surgery at 3 weeks and wanted to avo

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  • Congratulations!!

    I ended up EPing for my girls but for the first month, I pumped after each nursing session. Pain in the butt, but worth it.

    We didnt have a real routine for a few months since there was no real bedtime. Babies were just on

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  • Hi. :) i was actually forced to pump very early. DS was badly jaundiced so we were on the nurse, pump, supplement plan from day 3. That's when i started pumping (at that time after every nursing session) and that's when he started taking a bottle of pumpe
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    Congrats and welcome! For now, you are in survival mode. You don't need to worry about routines or schedules or anythin
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  • Welcome Penny!  And congrats on your LO!  I don't have any good advice...my milk never really came in....so LO was pretty much on formula from day one.  As for routine, I just try to lay her down the same time every night.   She's
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