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20 weeks out...painful sex

FigureSkater8FigureSkater8 member
in November 2012 Moms
2nd attempt tonight....full penetration but then had to stop.  Started bleeding.  Too painful to continue.  I had 2nd to 3rd degree tearing and a big 8 lbs 11oz first baby.  I have a feeling it's scar tissue....does this improve by having sex or do I need to have it removed?  Should I go to the doctor or wait a few more weeks and try again?  Also EBFing so very dry. Used KY but it wasn't enough. Feeling discouraged but at least DH is supportive....

  Me:36, DH:37

DS born 11/2012

BFP 7/26/14, Missed M/C at 8 weeks, discovered at 10 wks, 6 days, D&C 9/22/14, Dx: Partial molar pregnancy

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    ssmb_clarinetssmb_clarinet member

    I would probably go to your gyno at this point and have them take a look, at least to make sure nothing healed incorrectly.

    I also had a 2nd to 3rd degree tear and had an 8lb 15oz baby and sex at this point is not painful. All healing should be

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    MaebbMaebb member
    Sorry. ::mobile sad face::

    I had an 8 lb 10 oz baby, and I had 2nd degree tears and BF. Some positions are more comfortable than others, but I haven't had extreme pain or bleeding. I would probably go to the doctor to check on how everythi
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    jLeigh0709jLeigh0709
    Sorry to hear you're also having this problem! I had a 3rd degree tear and I finally went in last week to have an exam because I also could not DTD without having lots of pain. It was scar tissue for me and they removed it in the office.

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    CurlyQ284CurlyQ284 member
    I had a 2nd degree tear and LO was 9lbs 2oz. I haven't had a problem since the second time DTD. I would talk to your doctor.
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    FigureSkater8FigureSkater8 member
    Thanks ladies-and JLeigh thanks for the details-hopefully that would help me too! 

      Me:36, DH:37

    DS born 11/2012

    BFP 7/26/14, Missed M/C at 8 weeks, discovered at 10 wks, 6 days, D&C 9/22/14, Dx: Partial molar pregnancy

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