June 2012 Moms

Furious: long vent

Hello. Lurker here. I'm totally going to just vent because I have no other outlet right now.
My husband travels for work a lot and he was going to be gone from home most of April so we decided to have me and DS travel with him for about a week. He is running a huge event so I knew that I would not see him much. My MIL came with to help with DS since it was our first time traveling and flying. We have been here for two days and it has been fun. My DH works long hours and then goes out to dinner with his bosses and peers after the event closes. Tonight he said it was going to be a late night and I just said don't get wasted. Well....DS woke up around 130 am and DH still wasn't back. He comes stumbling in a few minutes later, gets ready for bed and comes to lay down. DS fully wakes up and my DH wreaked of alcohol. He wasn't in bed ten minutes when he had to go back to the bathroom. He spent an hour in there pooping and puking, came back to bed and started puking heaving, got up and puked on the way to the bathroom. Comes back to bed and is snoring louder than a fog horn. Meanwhile I am trying to keep DS asleep and he refuses to sleep in the pnp so he is in bed with me but I can't sleep because he is sleeping on the edge and I can't put him in between DH and I because DH is passed out. Last time we travel with him. I am miserable and so far have only gotten three hours asleep.

Re: Furious: long vent

  • Ugh!  I would be furious too! 
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  • I don't mind if my husband drinks, but if he messes with my daughter's sleep schedule, he will feel my wrath. I think I would have woken up mil and asked her to take LO. Sorry about your bad time traveling with your h.
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    I am sorry that he broke his agreement to you! Unfortunately, drinking and sales and marketing travel go hand in hand and it can be hard to go against the culture and not get called out on the rug for it. But the fact that he told you he wouldn't would b
  • Update....next morning he was super apologetic and felt really bad. He said he didn't mean to. His boss just kept ordering more drinks and he didn't know how to say no. I forgave him after he apologized and we talked about the fact that he needs to not be
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