Maybe this isn't the method for me.....it's been over an hour and I don't know if I can listen to V cry. It's breaking my heart. When I go in after the 10 minutes and now 15, he grabs my arm and hugs it to his chest and face. When I gently take it away to walk out, he starts to cry again.
Isnt my job to comfort him? I know there's a bigger picture here and I know he's now learning I will pick him up if he screams louder, but this is torture.