I usually think it makes sense to do birthday parties the weekend after the birthday. DS's is the Thursday after Mother's Day. My aunt always does a BBQ for Mother's Day, I spoke to her about us having DS's birthday on that day and she was fine with it. Now DH thinks we should do it on a Saturday. I feel like if we have the party the Saturday after his birthday, my aunt would still feel obligated to having her BBQ and people would feel obligated to going to both, but if we do it the Saturday before his birthday she may not do the BBQ so people wouldn't feel committed to 2 parties. WWYD? FWIW no one really has mothers around so Mother's day doesn't really effect things.

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Re: birthday party before the birthday?
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