Parenting after a Loss

anyone's husband work nights?

A week after our baby was born my husband had to return to works doing 12 hour nights, 6-6. There was a major accident at the plant where he works, so his crew was put on that schedule indefinatley until things are fixed.

I am alone all night with the baby and then alone during the day while DH sleeps. We get to spend a little of the afternoon together but it is such a short time and honetly I need to use some of that for a quick power nap while he watches the baby so I have the energy to keep going.

My husband is exsausted from this schedule wich makes for two very tired people and very little family time and very little help.

Is anyone else in a similar situation? How do you make the best of nights?

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Re: anyone's husband work nights?

  • My husband works from 1 am to 7 am, though it is from home. He does internet help desk, and while he probably could help me, as soon as he touches the baby the phone rings. I also feel very paranoid that the baby crying will make him lose his job or so

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  • imageJessiebug81:
    DH works evenings, so 3pm to midnight. It's rough especially bc by the end of the day they're colicky and I'm exh
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  • imagemkc5869:
    My husband does also. He only works 8 hour shifts though so I get more time with him. I know how hard that shift is
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  • My husband typically works his real job 3pm-11pm, on weekends it is normal for him to work until 3 or 4 am.  And 3 days a week he works mornings as well.  So while he doesn't work overnights, I spend a lot of time alone with DD during her fus

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  • Kind of a reverse situation here. I work 7p-7a F-S and he works normal weekday hours. He pretty much takes care of our daughter on the weekends because I'm exhausted and have to sleep. I'm off M-Th except I work 3p-11p every other wed. I have her most

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