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planning - freaking out

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We have been planning to start TTC in July for the last....6 months. It's after a trip where we'll SCUBA so we delayed on purpose.

Today I intended to schedule my Dr's appt to remove my IUD and I started crying and shaking.  Not in a good way. I'm not even sure what I'm freaking out about but I'm having a HUGE reaction. 

Did this happen to anyone else? I have known I wanted to have a baby for 15 years but the time/life/circumstances weren't right until now... 

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  • Ladiebug710Ladiebug710 member
    Any life change is scary, and it is normal to be emotional about it. 

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  • peanutmusepeanutmuse member
    No, I didn't freak out. It is a huge decision, yes. But I was happy about it.
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  • stargazer08stargazer08

    Um, no I never freaked out about taking the next steps toward TTC. But, a few days before my first BFP, I do remember having a conversation with my mom saying that I wasn't sure if I should have kids right now, or ever. 

    Honestly, it is a lo

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  • MissRdotSMissRdotS member
    When my husband and I decided to start TTC, I started crying - like Kim Kardashian big gross balling my eyes out crying. It didn't feel like a happy cry either, and it certainly freaked both my husband and I out. However, after the first month and the tes
                                                                                                                         

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  • sarahharmintxsarahharmintx

    I was pretty nervous to get my IUD taken out as well. It sucks for a few hours but then all is well. My DR told me to wait 2 months so even if you wanted to start TTC now (which I see you dont), you would probably be advised to wait.

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  • jjgrl55jjgrl55 member

    Yeah, my husband had to sort of psych me up to take out my Nuvaring. Which was ironic because I was the one who brought up TTC in the first place. It was just a REALLY big deal to me, after being on BC since I was 16. Sort of that moment before you jum

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  • annksawannksaw member
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    I was pretty nervous to get my IUD taken out as well. It sucks for a few hours but then all is well. My DR t

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  • anssettanssett member
    Thanks everyone. I honestly can't think of what I'm afraid of. That's the weird part. I'm married to the man of my dreams. He'll be a great dad. I'll be a great mom. We have good stable jobs and money in the bank. We are in the right place (we planned it
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  • Mrs+MeMrs+Me member

    I haven't cried but I do get nervous.  

    I am really into making sure we have great timing pinpointing O time and then after I am "OMG WHAT did we just do!?!?" and then it goes away and I start counting down to testing.

     

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  • emsrdh03emsrdh03 member

     Totally normal. 

    After actively trying to conceive our son for several months, my very first reaction after seeing those coveted two lines was "OMG. What did we just do"

     Granted it only lasted a split second and was immedia

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