Pregnant after a Loss

Woah woah woah!

I had a loss in January, it was horribly traumatizing. DH and I were TTA until  I felt emotionally "ready" to get pregnant again. Well, I guess now is as good a time as ever, because here we are....pregnant. Holy moly. We're really nervous, but also SO excited. Just hoping for a take home baby. When do y'all share your pregnancy with family and friends? I am thinking of waiting until we hear the heartbeat. 

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BFP #1 July 4, 2011 Baby girl born Feb 22, 2012!!
BFP #2 December 17, 2012 MMC January 24, 2013
BFP #3 April 7, 2013 Baby girl born December 11, 2013!!
Amelia has Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. She has had 3 open heart surgeries, 1 g-tube surgery, and one tracheostomy. She is the strongest, most precious little fighter. 
You can follow her at. Www.ameliafaithsheart.blogspot.com

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  • First of all Congrats! The first time we didn't tell a soul, not even our parents. The loss was really difficult without their support, and they ended up finding out anyway, which was heart breaking. This time we told our parents as soon as we got a BF
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  • Congrats!! I also had a loss in January--here we are! Let's both stick around this time!
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    Congrats!! I also had a loss in January--here we are! Let's both stick around this time!

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    BFP #1 July 4, 2011 Baby girl born Feb 22, 2012!!
    BFP #2 December 17, 2012 MMC January 24, 2013
    BFP #3 April 7, 2013 Baby girl born December 11, 2013!!
    Amelia has Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. She has had 3 open heart surgeries, 1 g-tube surgery, and one tracheostomy. She is the strongest, most precious little fighter. 
    You can follow her at. Www.ameliafaithsheart.blogspot.com
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    BFP #1 July 4, 2011 Baby girl born Feb 22, 2012!!
    BFP #2 December 17, 2012 MMC January 24, 2013
    BFP #3 April 7, 2013 Baby girl born December 11, 2013!!
    Amelia has Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. She has had 3 open heart surgeries, 1 g-tube surgery, and one tracheostomy. She is the strongest, most precious little fighter. 
    You can follow her at. Www.ameliafaithsheart.blogspot.com
  • Congrats, I told my mom at 4 weeks because she gives me PIO shots, my dad and sisters at 7 weeks and my grandparents at 12 weeks, No one else knows.
    6 m/c
    Anovulatory cycles, increased Synthroid Diagnosed Sep 2010
    Natural cycle Dec 2010 BFP M/C 6 1/2 Weeks, D&E Jan 2011
    1 Clomid/Ovidrel BFN May 2011
    Natural cycle Aug 2011 BFP M/C 4 Weeks
    1 IUI Sept 2011 BFP M/c 7 weeks
    Provera Dec 2011 BFP M/C 3 Weeks
    DQ ALPHA HLA MATCH, High NK Cells Diagnosed Dec 2011
    IVF March 2012 BFP m/c 4weeks 5 days (IL, Prednisone)
    IVF#2w/DS July 2012 MEGA FAILURE BFN (IL, Dexamethasone)
    Diagnosed No real HLA Match, DQ Beta Triad, High TNF, Low NK Cells
    Oct 2012 Natural Cycle m/c 4wks (Lovenox, Prednisone) 
    Went to Beer Center- high tnf, low lad, implantation failure
    Nov/Dec 2012 LIT Treatment
    Dec 12 Humira
    Jan 2013 BFP
    Humira,LIT,Prednisone, Lovenox, IVIG, Baby Aspirin
    Miracle Born August 2013 Premature

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  • Congratulations

    With all three pregnancies we waited to tell family until after the first u/s. I told a couple of friends right away to keep from exploding with excitement/anxiety.

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    IVF#1~ 8/2012~ 13 frosties~ BFP! OHSS
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    Congrats, I told my mom at 4 weeks because she gives me PIO shots, my dad and sisters at 7 weeks and my grandparent


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    BFP #1 July 4, 2011 Baby girl born Feb 22, 2012!!
    BFP #2 December 17, 2012 MMC January 24, 2013
    BFP #3 April 7, 2013 Baby girl born December 11, 2013!!
    Amelia has Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. She has had 3 open heart surgeries, 1 g-tube surgery, and one tracheostomy. She is the strongest, most precious little fighter. 
    You can follow her at. Www.ameliafaithsheart.blogspot.com
  • Lots of ladies on here with m/c in January.  I too had a m/c in January and am now pregnant again also.  Hoping the 3rd time's the charm for me. Big Smile  DH told
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  • Congrats and welcome!  Whether you tell or not depends on if you're looking for support or privacy, I think.  We told our parents our 6 weeks (after we heard the heartbeat), but I told my BFF a couple days after my BFP.  With friends, we

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  • Congrats!  I shared with my parents right away, and have each time.  But we are waiting to tell the rest of the world until we see the heartbeat.
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  • Congratulations and welcome!

    We told our parents earlier with this pregnancy than with our loss.  Basically, we waited until we had our confirmation appointment with our OB, so I was about 4 weeks along.  I knew we'd need their support

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  • Congrats and welcome! I told my mom with all 3 BFP's the day I got them, with our most recent DH decided to wait and tell his parents and siblings until after we had a HB, which we found pretty soon at an early u/s.  I don't think there is a right or

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    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
    BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
    BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15

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  • congrats and welcome!

    I am still very early and found out a week ago...so far we have only told my mom just so I have someone besides DH to talk crazy too when I am having a pgal moment.  We are aiming for our first appt. on 4/29 to tell the

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    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

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  • Congrats and Welcome! We told our close family and friends right away. My thinking was that if anything were to happen again I would want their support and could never just pretend the pragnancy didn't happen. I also thought to myself if my BFF were pg an
    BFP #1: 12/26/11, EDD 09/05/12; m/c discovered: 02/22/12 @ 12w u/s,
    D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
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  • Congratulations!!

    This time around I was almost 7 weeks when I told my mom and sister. I was trying to hold out until 8 weeks, which was Christmas, but couldn't. My mom ended up telling my grandmother but then we didn't tell anyone else for a whi

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  • First of all, So sorry to hear about your loss in January. But congrats on the BFP and welcome. As far as telling people, we told my parents as soon as seen our LO on ultrasound and got a reading of the HB and that was at 7w, but my dad has slipped and

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  • Congratulations!! After two losses, we were very cautious this time around. I told my mom and dad right before the appointment for our first U/S (somewhere around 8ish weeks). We told my H's parents right after we heard a heartbeat. We didn't tell anyo

    TTC:Off BCP December 2011. BFP #1 January 16, 2012; EDD September 12, 2012; m/c Feb,1 2012. BFP #2 June 6, 2012; EDD February 11, 2013; diagnosed with blighted ovum/had D&C July 12,2012. BFP #3 October 20, 2012; EDD June 29, 2013. BabyFruit Ticker Sunshine_zps3fcf529f
  • This time around I waited until 17 weeks to tell anyone.  PgAL paranoia!
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