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Feeling like a bad mom

GrantHensonGrantHenson member
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Ever since I was a little girl I have always wanted more than anything to be a mom.  Now I have a baby she will be 6 months old on the 20th and I feel guilty cus I find myself wondering at times if I was silly to have had a baby and wondering what life would be like if I did not have kids.  I love her like crazy just dont htink I am good at this mom thing

 

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  • ttarnold23ttarnold23 member
    that is the most normal thought you can have as a mother.  in fact, i think anyone who says they haven't had that exact thought is lying, imo.
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  • GrantHensonGrantHenson member

    Thanks lady's

    just feels rough

     

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  • cookie280cookie280 member
    I feel the same way sometimes and feel bad about thinking it. I guess it's normal, but I have doubted myself so many times!
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    imageGrantHenson:
    Ever since I was a little girl I have always wanted more than anything to be a mom.nbsp; Now I have a baby she will be
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  • itsmevkbitsmevkb member

    Most parents look back on their pre-baby lives with a sense of wow, I didn't realize how good I had it what with being able to do whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. There is a definite loss of freedom once you have a child and even though you kn

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  • mamaHippo23mamaHippo23 member

    My pregnancy was unplanned, so trust me I have this thought pretty frequently. Especially when things aren't going right and I have serious doubts about whether I made the right choice. But all I can do is focus on being the best mom I can be minute by

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  • GrantHensonGrantHenson member

    Thanks ladies

      I am just so sick of hearing from all of the people around me how I must be so excited and happy to be a mom.  And to be honest with you I was super excited to be a mom until I was a mom.  like I said i love her to

     

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