October 2011 Moms

I may be an asshoIe

Let me preface my family on my mother's side is, well, different.  My cousin "Jane" has gotten on my nerves over the years to say the least.  Long story short, she shouldn't be a mother but has two children.  Anyway...

My cousin sent a PM to my sister not long ago on fb asking her what my mother's favorite color was (I won't add her to my fb).  She plans to have tattoos done in memory of our grandmother and my mother.  I can't tell her, "you suck and shouldn't get a tattoo about my mother at all," but I am bothered about the thought of it.  She has total kitchen scratchers who can't tattoo worth a sh!t doing her work, and I want to crawl out of my skin thinking she's going to have something permanently marked on her skin that is at all attached to my mother.

  My siblings and I all have something in my mother's memory, but we all consulted with each other what we were marking on our skin.  Andplusalso, we went to very professional and talented tattoo artists.  I know I will just leave it be, but I kind of feel I should at least express my concerns for her choice in "artist".



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Re: I may be an asshoIe

  • It sucks that it's not really your business, but it isn't.

    But I totally get your irritation.  I get the feeling she's a massive AW and she's like "look at all my feeeelings."

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  • I would totally lie about her favorite color.
  • Oh, she's a total AW and that says a lot coming from me.  You know, cuz I'm a giant hor.  And I know it's not really my business, but gah, she's like the worst.

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  • I agree with everyone here. It does suck. Let it all out to us.

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  • I guess I'm more sensitive with her birthday last month and her death anniversary in a couple of weeks. 

    Dammit, you guise are making me all feely and misty and stuff.  

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  • I'm sorry. I hope your sister tells her it looks like sh!t. Hopefully it's not in a  place you have to see it. 
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  • I think grief is a funny creature.  For me, it was a very "possessive" thing, and it sounds like it's similar for you.

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    I would totally lie about her favorite color.


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  • Missy, we're going to need confirmation of the peen collection.

    I was thinking maybe you could turn them into chia pets? I googled it to see if anyone had ever done that and found this:

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  • I guess I'm an azzhole too because I would say something. That's just who I am, though. If I didn't, it would eat at me and I would hold a grudge and end up resenting her. Regardless of how you handle it, I'm sorry you feel the way that you do. Hugs!
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