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rant.. other moms

pregokatpregokat member
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idk if this is the full moon.. stress.. or maybe I'm pmsing but i'm feeling soo irritable...  

So I'm a single mom of a 3 month old. 

I went through the entire pregnancy single 

I have friends on facebook who just piss me the F off.. ya know?

I have to stop myself from typing on their pictures or commenting on their status posts.

They post pictures of daddy with baby, or "our little family" and say stuff like "I'm so lucky to have had a baby with the love of my life and he provides for us and does this and does that and blah blah blah blah blah... "

I wanna type and say yeah you lucky b*tch. Imagine what its like being the sole provider of your child. Imagine what its like to be the only one who wakes up for night feedings and diaper changes. Imagine what its like having to work and go to school and take care of a newborn, all at the same time. 

You think you have it hard? Try MY life for one f*cking day you spoiled little brats. You better be thankful for what you have because you complain about no sleep when you have help.. 

 

ok end rant. thanks ladies lol 

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  • mel1987mel1987 member
    I have a friend of FB who's husband periodically goes out of town. Her post is always " Looks like I'm a single mom this weekend again :-( " It is so hard from writing a mean and B!tchy response!
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  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    My friends haven't complained since I told them I was pregnant.  Either that or they put me on a list so that I wouldn't see their complaints.  But remember guys... "Any woman can be a mother, but it takes a BADASS mom to be a dad too."  I
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  • inthelostinthelost member
    yea i admit: i've gotten jealous and thought to myself "lucky b**ch" when my hormones get out of control. i know i shouldn't but...it happens. :(
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  • Runaway22Runaway22 member

    imagemel1987:
    I have a friend of FB who's husband periodically goes out of town. Her post is always " Looks like I'm a single mom t
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  • lilhockeygurlMOMlilhockeygurlMOM member

    You sound very bitter...which you have every right to be. Eventually your gonna snap on someone...try counseling to get your feelings  out and get advice.

    Also, I totally understand your feelings. Its normal to feel that.

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  • tracy41tracy41 member
    Whew, take some deep breaths! Having gone through it all both as a married woman and as a single woman, I have to say newborns are hard either way. And no offense to whatever your friends are posting but I have yet to meet a woman whose husband is an equa
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  • pregokatpregokat member

    Yeah.. Ya'll are right :) 

    No situation is perfect, they all are prob dealing with things that I know nothing about, I'm happy I have a healthy little baby. 

    Just sometimes it sneaks up on me, I honestly have nobody to talk to abo

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  • mimimimimiiiimimimimimiiii member

    I totally agree with you!! These people are so annoying and they don't care about other people's feeling. I hate that so much!! 

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  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    There is a woman in my office that goes out of her way to talk about her marriage and kids with me.  About how nice it is to have a stay at home husband and how I really should've tried to work things out with BD. She doesn't really get to me because
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  • ChuggingWaterChuggingWater member
    imagetifanico:

    Hmm yeah, it is normal to have the desire to have a better situation but to get worked up about it?

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  • jomeiryl92jomeiryl92 member
    I know how you feel, I've been going through the same thing since I had my daughter. People assume that it's easy or that if you're a single parent you should be happy because you have a baby. But it's hard to see you're friends who aren't single parents
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  • michelleonthecoastmichelleonthecoast member

    First of all, I understand your frustrations.  It's tough to see others appearing to be happy and have their perfect little life.  Especially when you feel like your own life is so hard.  It's hard not to be resentful.

    Just try to

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  • athomas2424athomas2424 member
    imagemichelleonthecoast:

    First of all, I understand your frustrations.  It's tough to see others appearing to be happy and hav

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  • bripratt2bripratt2
    imagetracy41:
    Whew, take some deep breaths! Having gone through it all both as a married woman and as a single woman, I have to say newb
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