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bawling..

inthelostinthelost member
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my baby's father about a week ago told me to "never ***** talk to him ever again" and that he wasn't telling any family members or friends about the baby b/c he was "too embarrassed of me" and so for a week, ZERO contact. then, i had a doctor's appointment today and he texted me during it "hope all is well. I have important information to give you but you really have to call me" i told him that fine i would after the doctor's appointment if it really was "important". turns out he just wants me to give the baby to some random relative of his that can't have kids. and he said "oh, you'll still get pictures" while i feel for them, i really do this is MY baby, and I WANT my baby. I was already anxious and upset b/c they had a hard time finding the heartbeat..but finally did! they've always found it right away before...anyway, i was just in tears thinking "he can't really MAKE me give up my baby?" he says he's trying to "save both mine and his life" but..he doesn't know that this baby IS saving my life..even if it wasn't planned, the baby means everything in the world to me...and now at 18 weeks he just decides i should give it up? and try to reassure me by saying "you can have pictures" I don't want "pictures" i want my child!!!! if he doesn't want to be involved then fine, i'll just leave the birth certificate blank, but don't try to convince me I shouldn't have the baby either.....
Liliana Seraphina born 9/5/2103


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  • Runaway22Runaway22 member

    No, he cannot just MAKE you give away your baby. Good thing he's made his position clear now, though. I know what he said seems earth-shaking right now, but that's because you're 18 weeks pregnant (trust me, I remember all too well!). Try to see h

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  • Leothelion2013Leothelion2013 member

    Oh sweetie, my heart goes out to you. I would block his texts and move forward. Focus on you and your baby with no distractions like that. At least until you feel stronger and more confident about your rights as a mother.

    Hang in there!

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  • bripratt2bripratt2
    O honey I've been there I'm so sorry :/ bd was an ...but you know what I had my baby and he didn't have any say in it. Things get better I met the love of my life and he's adopting lo : hang in there.
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  • inthelostinthelost member
    thanks for the replies everyone. i told him I was keeping MY baby but he could sign away his rights if he wished, i have not heard a single thing from him since then. I''m going to ignore him and not buy into that i need to talk to him because it's "impor
    Liliana Seraphina born 9/5/2103


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