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Very sad this is such a short stay!

Went for ultrasound this morning at 8 weeks 4 days.  The baby stopped growing.   My doctor sent me to the hospital for another U/S to make sure.  The reuslt is the same.  So now I need to decide to let this miscarriage naturally or do an D&C.  My H and I are very sad but we will be okay and move this forward.  Best of luck to you all. 

Re: Very sad this is such a short stay!

  • Oh no.  I am so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    TTC since Dec. 2010. Me: 37, DH: 38...unexplained RPL
    BFP #1 - missed m/c 4.18.11 found @8w3d, d&c @13w 
    BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
    BFP#3 - missed m/c 6.11.12 @ 9w3d, d&c revealed extra chromosome 15
    BFP#4 8.10.12, DD born 4/26/13
  • So very sorry for your loss.

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  • I'm so very sorry to hear this.  I had the same thing happen on my first pregnancy only it wasn't discovered until 11 weeks.  I opted for the D&C.  I just wanted to be able to let my body heal and move forward sooner instead of waiting

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • I'm so so very sorry. I also went through something similiar at 9 weeks so if you have any questions let me know, take care of yourself.
    nate and teddy
    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
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  • Thank you, ladies.  I am going to go for the D&C next week.  Do your period come the following month after the D&C and does that mean you can try after that?

     

  • I am so sorry. I had the same thing happen to me at 9 weeks as well. I started having very bad cramps and bleeding and went in, the u/s showed baby had stopped growing at around 5-6 weeks - so that was the beginning of my missed miscarriage. I think I got
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    Thank you, ladies.  I am going to go for the D&C next week.  Do your period come the following month a

    nate and teddy
    Me 41 DH 46  Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test. TTC #2 **5th cycle 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy is due 04/28/13!!
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  • I'm so very sorry!  :(  Hugs. 
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    TTC 10/11. IUI 2/12. BFP 3/8/12. 4/26/12 missed mc. RE consult 5/17/12. IVF #1 ER 7/13/12 53R, 41M ICSIed, 32F, 8 5d, 6 6d blasts - all PGD/frozen. PGD results 1 normal M and 1 normal F, 1 maybe M. FET 9/6, transferred 1 F embie. Beta 9/15 BFN. FET#2 planned for 11/2012 put off until 2013. Surprise BFP 11/21/12!! My son was born on 7/24/13!

    FET 4/28/2015 - Transferred 1 M embie. 5/6/15 BFP!

  • I am so sorry to hear this! I was hoping this was your time.

    I had a natural miscarriage, but was pregnant within 3 months. The first month, they are unsure if I ovulated (the chart looked awesome) and then the second month after, I ovulated but e
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    DD born 6/1/2013 after 15 months of TTC with one loss.    
    TTC #2: BFP 4/22 but stalled growth and no HB at 9w3d on 5/30        

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  • imagejchow009:

    Thank you, ladies.  I am going to go for the D&C next week.  Do your period come the following mont

    Me:40 AMA, DH:36 0% morph, TTC#1;
    BFP#1 4/2011, MMC 6/2011 11wks Trisomy 13;
    BFP#2 11/2011, CP
    FSH: 17.9, AMH: 2.2
    IVF#1 w/ICSI: ER 4/3: 5R,4M,4F
    ET 4/6 All 4 (1-8A+, 2-8A-, 1-3A) BFP#3
    Two weeks of beta hell = Blighted Ovum
    IVF#2 Aug/Sept: ER 8/27: 4R,3M,3F
    ET 8/30 (1-8A+, 1-6A+)
    Beta#1 9/10: 350; Beta#2 9/12: 796; Beta#3 9/20: 9155
    Expecting Boy/Girl Twins! My babies were born 4/23/13 at 36w1d!

     
     

  • So sorry for your loss.
  • I am so sorry you are going through this. I had a miss.miscariage at 11 weeks but the baby stopped growing at 6weeks. I went through it naturally but if I had found out sooner I would have went in for a d and c. After I went through it I was surprised tha
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry.
  • I'm so sad to hear this.  I'm very sorry for your loss.  :(
    Me - 38 DH - 38 DD - 2 pregnancy
  • I am so very sorry for your loss.
    About me:AMA 41 BFP 8/1/12 EDD 4/8/12 Found no Heartbeat 9/5/12 D&C 9/12/12

    BFP 12/13/12 EDD 8/22/13 Lilah Ruby born 8/8/13

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  • Again, so very sorry for your loss. Unfortunately there is really no way to predict what will happen with your cycle after the DC. Some women go right back to a normal pattern but for some it can take awhile. Mine was a complete mess. I hope you will
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
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