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2nd Trimester
muksak
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Going alone? or at least the feeling?
muksak
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Has anybody has had the feeling like you are alone in your pregnancy? For me it could just be the hormones but I feel like my husband wants nothing to do with me. He just got a new job where pay is based on how hard you work and I have only seen him once this entire week. He comes home at like 2am from meeting with his coworkers at a restaurant/bar to discuss the day and paperwork..
Do you think its just the hormones or do you think I am justified in wanting my husband to come home at a normal time so he can go to bed at the same time as his pregnant wife? Maybe it is just an adjustment thing to
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Re: Going alone? or at least the feeling?
It's probably the hormones.
My SO works 2 jobs so I don't see him often either. At first it bothered me, but then I realized something: if I see him a whole lot, that means he's not at his jobs, so he's not making money. I'd rather he make mone
BFP 3/29/2014 2u2 Let's do this!
Dx: balanced translocation and LPD
TTC since Oct 2011
BPF 02/19/12, EDD 10/31/12, natural m/c 02/28/12 (4w6d)
IVF (BCPs starting 10/30/12, ER 11/18/12, 5dt of 1 beautiful, healthy embryo 11/23/12)
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Bed rest from 21w-35w due to short cervix, hospital bed rest from 23w-32w due to PTL
Our rainbows were born 07/19/13 (36w, 5d)
Yeah we are both really good with communicating our feelings and not picking stupid fights so I am trying to wait and see if I am genuinely upset or just hormonal. I just have such a hard time falling asleep lately when he isn't home (ha sounds so juve
Me:27, DH:28 - DX: MFI, varicocele repair Nov 2011
Post-Op SA: Count- 15 million, Motility- 75%, Morphology- 3%
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I actually AM alone during the pregnancy because of a deployment (he's missing all of it and then part of baby's first few months) however I am used to that type of life by now. If I were in your situation I would be mad that he com
The hormones are probably playing a big role in the way you are feeling. I tend to feel a little more emotional lately about things that wouldn't have bothered me when I wasn't pregnant.
"He comes home at like 2am from meeting with his coworkers at a restaurant/bar to discuss the day and paperwork."
I understand working a lot. I barely see my husband either, but is the above really necesarry??<
If you believe he's at a bar until 2am 'discussing paperwork' I have a bridge to sell you. I won't try to speculate what he's actually doing, but it's not work-related.
I've known plenty of people who did construction and not one of them had to b