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Regretting kids?

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  • babyAutumnbabyAutumn member
    I feel so sorry for her kids having grown up feeling unwanted.  Even if they weren't told that they weren't wanted, I think they have probably known it all their lives...kids have a sixth sense that way.  What I find even worse is that she belit
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  • GingerNessGingerNess member

    "I know there are millions who will consider me heinously cold-blooded and unnatural"


    Yup!

    I have no nice words. At all. So I will leave it at that! 

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  • becasmecabecasmeca member
    A few thoughts!

    1. Did my mom write this?
    2. What are childminders ?
    3. I believe actions speak louder than words. "It is not what you say, but how you behave" that is a true manifestation of feelings. Throughout the article th
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  • Yasiris1105Yasiris1105 member
    The only thing I can say is that at least she took care of them... BUT part of taking care of a kid is to love them. So if she knew she didn't wanted children SHE SHOULDN'T!!! She is a stupid, imbecile person. If you want children then you start to have t
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  • Yasiris1105Yasiris1105 member
    imageMsGrace2003:
    This reminds me of a discussion that we had a while back about whether or not it would have been a deal breaker if o
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  • alli&danalli&dan member
    Here's my confession. Maybe I'll DD this later. I have never once felt regret about having B. She is the light of my life. But I still can't manage to get all that excited about this little one on the way, and I'm afraid he's going to sense that he wasn't
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  • babyAutumnbabyAutumn member

    imagealli&dan:
    Here's my confession. Maybe I'll DD this later. I have never once felt regret about having B. She is the light o
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  • MsCrispyMsCrispy member

    Wow. That's really all I can say.

    I hate how she makes herself sounds like a martyr. And I can't believe she actually thinks that she was a good mother when she never said I love you. She sounds extremely cold hearted about everything. I find it


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  • CMheart1011CMheart1011 member

    It's one thing to think those things.  It's another to say (or write) them for everyone, including the kids, to hear.

    I guess I just don't get it.  When I was a teen and in my early twenties, I did not want kids at all.  I started

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  • linzicalinzica member

    I could buy her whole "i'm a good mom even though I regret having them" if she cared that her son was born blue, or that she left him outside a bakery as an infant.

    Wanting kids or not, she sounds like a psychopath, completely lacking in real em

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  • mnewleemnewlee member
    imagelinzica:

    I could buy her whole "i'm a good mom even though I regret having them" if she cared that her son was born blue, or t

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