Parenting after a Loss

Down Syndrome

Yesterday, some blood work they took at the hospital came back that they took after seeing some markers, and my Vincent has Down Syndrome. He doesn't have the typical facial features for it, which I am hoping means a mild case.

I love my boy no matter what, and we have lots of tests set up for the future, I will do anything to get what he needs.

Do any of you ladies know of good resources on down's, or personal experiences? I am a ball of emotion.
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  • Oh Susan, I am so sorry to hear about this :(

    We had some blood work that came back indicating a 1 in 100 chance of DS at 16 weeks, but after an amnio we found out LO did not have DS.  But I did do a lot of research during that time waiting

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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this difficult time with all the testing. But you are going to be a great mom to that little boy, that is quite obvious already! ((BIG HUGS)) 
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  • I am sorry to hear this, but your baby will be in good hands with you as his mama. Look into contacting your state's Early On program. They should be able to offer OT, PT and speech if he needs it. Ds1 doesnt have downs syndrome, but another genetic di
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    Close family friends of mine have a son who has DS.  He is a wonderful, loving, independant, talented 8 year old.  He swims competitively and does so well he may be going to the Special Olympics in the future.  He plays/fights&

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    He's beautiful and perfect and how wonderful that you were chosen to be his mama!

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  • I dont have any additional resources but I wanted to suggest checking out the special needs board as they will probably have a lot more for you and will be able to provide some support.

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    Oh Susan, I am so sorry to hear about this :We had some blood work that came back indicating a 1 in 100 chance of DS at

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    Oh Susan, I am so sorry to hear about this :(

    We had some blood work that came back indicating a 1 in 100 ch

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  • I am sorry that you are dealing with this diagnosis. Big HUGS! I am sure you will be a wonderful mom to you beautiful baby boy!

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  • ((HUGS)). My dad was in the military & at the last base we were stationed at we had a family we were close to who's youngest had DS. They were able to mainstream him into normal youth soccer & even the HS marching band. He is in his early 20s now & from
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  • I am sorry you are facing this diagnosis, but your son is so lucky to have you as a momma. The ladies have passed along some great info, but I just want to reiterate seeking early intervention services as soon as possible. I would also look for a local su
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  • Oh, sweetie, I am so sorry you are going through this. I am a social worker in a special Ed school and the best advice I can give you is that you will need to be his biggest advocate in life in order for him to be successful. He is so lucky to have grea
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  • Im so sorry to hear that!  I dont have any advice but hes already a lucky guy to have parents that want him so much!
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    I don't have any additional advice, but I do want to say that Vincent is still a perfect little boy. YOUR beautiful perfect little boy. All three of you are so lucky to have each other. Give that awesome little man a tight squeeze and lots of kisses!
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    I don't have any direct experience with Downs, but wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts.  I can't imagine all the emotions/thoughts you are experiencing, but this little boy is lucky to have such a great mama.  

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  • I am sorry to hear you are facing this diagnosis but Vincent is very lucky to have such great parents!  I wish I had advice to offer.  
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  • I don't have anything to offer that these great ladies have not already said. I just wanted to offer some hugs.
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  • Aw Susan. ((big hugs)) I'm sorry that I don't have any resources. I'm sure that you will be an amazing mom and be able to give Vincent everything that he needs. 
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  • Actually, I know there is some kind of Down Syndrome office in Trexlertown by Kohls. I looked it up and it's this place. https://www.epdsc.net/ I didn't check out the links, but I know you're at least familiar
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  • I don't have any advice that hasn't been covered by others, but wanted to add some big ((hugs)) as you process this diagnosis. Your family will be in our thoughts & prayers.
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  • I don't have anything that can help, but ((hugs)) and he is beautiful and a lucky little boy to have such a great momma.
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  • I'm so sorry Susan :::hugs:::
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  • Lots of ((((hugs)))).  Your handsome little boy is so lucky to have great parents like y'all.  
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  • Thinking of you. I can only imagine the emotions you're going through. Take your time to process everything. Sending love and hugs.
  • Susan - 2 things. First and foremost - congratulations on your beautiful baby boy - I am so, so happy for you! His picture in your siggy is adorable!! Second, no matter the diagnosis, he's your little boy and you're his loving momma and even though he

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  • I'm so sorry! That must be such a shock. I have a cousin that has Downs and is in her 40's now. I love her dearly and have watched her live a very full life. It certainly isn't a death sentence by any means but I'm sure it wasn't what you were expecting.
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