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its the petty things that irritate me...

HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
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SS will be with us all of June and July. While DH and I will be taking time off of work to spend time with him, we cant just take two months off. That being said obviously, we need child care. There are summer programs here that do field trips and sport camp options and this is what we want to do instead of a babysitter. The only required documents we do  not have are SS shot record and a current physical. DH talked to BM about this program and what we need weeks ago. She said his appointment for his physical was the 29th. Well its the 3rd now. DH asked her if she had sent the documents. She had said she would send them if we paid for postage and bc we haven't seen a shipping amount due to her he asked if it had been done. She said his appointment is not until next week. She stopped returning texts once DH pointed out her original message said last week. I'm just so irritated that its the petty stuff that we are still dealing with. Early registration means less fees and paying last years rate so we want to get him a spot NOW. She knows this, but insists on playing games. Things have been ok lately, and they always are up until its almost time for SS to come visit. As it gets closer, she becomes more difficult. rant complete

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  • sweetie0228sweetie0228 member

    I get that she's being a pill and this is just another frustration in a long line of shenanigans she pulls.

    But most camps I've dealt with, ie: Boy Scout, YMCA, Girl Scout and daycares, have always allowed me to put the deposit money or pay in

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  • 10-4LilBuddy10-4LilBuddy member

    BM did that to us a few years ago.  We ended up just calling her doctor and got it faxed directly to us. 

    Also, we were able to register her without all the information.  We just needed it by the camp start.  Call and check

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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    Thank you for the posts ladies. I will check and see if payments can be accepted without all documentation.

    Tracking down who ss sees may be a bit difficult since BM won't give us that info, but because he's seen in a military hospital maybe

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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    imagewendilea:
    Your DH is legally entitled to all medical records regarding his son.nbsp; Since he's being seen at a military hospital u

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    BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013

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