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Cart waaayyyy before horse: Non-clicky poll

Wish I knew how to do a clicky poll, but I'm not that talented:)  The board has been a bit slow lately and this is something I've been thinking alot about lately and wondered what  you ladies thought.

When you get your BFP do you anticipate finding out the sex? And  when it comes time to deliver, do you want an epidural or would you want to try going drug-free (in ideal circumstances), or even a home birth?

 

 

 


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DX: PCOS/anovulatory/Hypothyroid
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5 cycles of Clomid/Femara + TI
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  • I plan on finding out the sex, but DH doesn't want to.  We'll cross that bridge when we get there.

    I was in the room when my sister delivered nephew #1 med free with forceps (her epidural ran out and the nurse didn't refill it because she th

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  • I always thought I knew the answers to these questions, without question, but it's amazing how this journey has made me question what I initially thought I wanted.

     Before IF I would have wanted to find out the sex, and was 99.99% sure


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  • DH and I agreed when we first started TTC almost four years ago to let the sex be a surprise at birth, since that time I've convinced him with IF treatments to compromise if it's twins we'll find out, for a singleton we won't.

    And after talki

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  • Knowing the sex will be driving me crazy from day one! There is no way I could wait!

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  • When I was younger I thought I wanted the sex to be a surprise but I am pretty sure we will find out so that we can shop and get gender specific things. I also always thought I would do completely meds free and home birth. But, since I live in MS, midwive
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  • We will definitely be finding out the sex of the baby...there is no way I could wait 9 months to find out :)  

    One thing we were talking about today were the 3D ultrasounds.  We were saying we don't want to do this because it takes away

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    We will find out the sex so we can finish the nursery. Will have epidural, at home births or water births are just not for me. 

    I honestly have seen some 3D ultrasound pics and baby looked like a blob, kinda freaked me out. I'm unsure about

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  • I do want to find out the sex, and I would LOVE to go drug free (and will try) but I am a bit of a pansy and hyperventilated in my saline sono so not sure how well that will go...
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  • I think I know exactly what I want, but I am open to the fact that when the time comes I may and probably will change my mind.

    We definetley want to find out the sex. I am a planner and want to make sure I know if I am planning for a little b
  • I'm not sure if I will find out the gender.  Part of me wants it to be a secret but my DH wants to know.  

    I would like to say I won't have an epidural but if the pains really bad I'm sure I will crack.   

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  • yep i want to know if it is a boy or girl and i think i have to have a c section and that is ok by me :)

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    4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
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    Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c :(

    Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
    Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
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  • We are not going to find out the sex. Also I would like a med free birth, but I can't say for sure because I don't know what contractions feel like.

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  • I used to want it to be a surprise but after all that's happened along our IF journey, we want to know.  As for the meds, I will most likely go for the drugs!
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    I always thought I knew the answers to these questions, without question, but it's amazing how this journey has ma

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  • I'm pretty sure that we will not be finding out the sex. DH has made it clear that he would prefer to keep it a surprise. And I'm okay with that, too. :)

    I'd prefer to go drug-free, but we'll see what happens.

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    10.2012 Clomid 50mg + TI = BFN

    11.2012 Clomid 50mg + TI = BFN

    12.2012 Clomid 100mg + TI = BFN

    01.2013 First visit with RE

    02.2013 Clomid 150mg + TI = BFN

    03.2013 Femara 5mg + TI = BFN

    05.2013 Femara 5mg + TI = BFN

    06.2013 Femara 7.5mg + TI = BFN

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  • I go back and forth about whether to be team green or not. I don't think DH could handle it though. Or handle his mother not knowing, for that matter.

     I would like to go natural, but I'm not so sure I would last... 

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  • Yes, we want to find out the gender. Or at least, we did the last time we talked about it. I haven't changed my mind. I want to be able to get the nursery and everything set up.

    Definitely want the drugs. I am a huge wuss and have no intention of

  • We will find out the gender - I hate surprises :)

    My birth plan is a shot of whiskey and an epidural for each kid. I'm hoping for triplets.

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    3/7/13: MTX injections put me on the bench.
    Cycle 2 6/7/13: Clomid 100mg CD3-7 = No response
    Cycle 2.1 Clomid 150mg CD 19-23 + Trigger + TI + Progesterone = BFN
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    Cycle 4 8/25/13: Bravelle 75-112iu + Trigger + IUI #2 + Progesterone = BFN
    Cycle 5 9/23/13: Bravelle 75-225iu + Trigger + IUI #3 + Progesterone = BFFN
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  • I don't want to find out the sex, but I'm not sure DH will agree, so we shall see when the time comes.

    I am petrified of spinal needles, and plan on going drug free.  I am not interested in a home birth though. 

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    IVF # 2 April 2014: Endo scrape, transferred 2 blasts = BFP!! (first ever!), CP
    FET #1 June 2014: transferred 2 blasts = BFFN
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  • We would find out the sex. And I am up for an epi however I don't really know if it will work for me of not. I've had one before and it didn't take, so labor may be a nightmare for me with my pain condition. I try not to think about that, because I know I
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  • Well I am a HUGE planner, if I don't have a plan I start stressing, so I would have to know the sex of the baby/babies. As far as having an epidural though, I have gone back and forth.  My best friend had both of my god-daughters drug free, the young

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    MTHFR 
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  • We will definitely be finding out the gender. Since we are likely going to be one and done at this point, I want to buy everything gender specific, set up the nursery completely, etc. I'm too much of a planner and hate surprises anyway.

    As for th

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  • I definitely want to keep the gender a surprise! Why not. 

    Hmm as far as drugs, I think I will get them. I am a major wuss. I was in the room when my mom had my (much younger) brother and she had no drugs and it was all fine and dandy and no p
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  • I know for sure that I want to know the sex, but DH isn't sure he wants to. He said he'll decide when the time comes. When it comes to the delivery, I am hoping not to have an epidural, but I wont rule it out! 
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    July 2013: 5mg Femara+Ovidrel+TI--BFN
    August 2013: 10mg Femara+Ovidrel+TI--BFN
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    Jan 2014: 10mg Femara+Ovidrel+TI--BFN
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  • I hope I can be a future member of team green!

    I agree that the IF journey has changed my ideas about childbirth.  I used to want to do the midwife/Birth Center childbirth, but now I'm more more flexible in my thinking: I'd like to labo

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  • We will certainly be finding out the gender.  I've waited long enough...  And I will be getting the epidural.  Why not?  Plus I have a very tilted cervix which I hear makes it harder and more painful.  I know it has made my HSG an
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