Wish I knew how to do a clicky poll, but I'm not that talented:) The board has been a bit slow lately and this is something I've been thinking alot about lately and wondered what you ladies thought.
When you get your BFP do you anticipate finding out the sex? And when it comes time to deliver, do you want an epidural or would you want to try going drug-free (in ideal circumstances), or even a home birth?
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I plan on finding out the sex, but DH doesn't want to. We'll cross that bridge when we get there.
I was in the room when my sister delivered nephew #1 med free with forceps (her epidural ran out and the nurse didn't refill it because she th
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September 2012: Start IF testing
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
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I always thought I knew the answers to these questions, without question, but it's amazing how this journey has made me question what I initially thought I wanted.
Before IF I would have wanted to find out the sex, and was 99.99% sure
Off BC since 9/10;TTC since 7/11
Me: 31 DH: 31
DX: PCOS/anovulatory/Hypothyroid
SA: normal
HSG: all clear
5 cycles of Clomid/Femara + TI
IUI #1 (7/16/12) Femara 2.5,+ Trigger=BFN
Treatment break Aug. 2012-June 2013
IUI #2 (7/27/13)=BFP!!!
Beta #1 @ 13dpiui --145!
Beta #2 @ 19dpiui--2,550!
And after talki
IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
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Me: 27 - Bicornuate uterus; HSG clear
DH: 28 - Slightly abnormal motility & viscosity
Dec '12- Feb '13: Clomid/HCG = BFN
Mar '13: Femara/HCG/HSG & IUI #1 = BFN
April '13: Femara/HCG/IUI #2 = BFN
May '13: Clomid/HCG/IUI #3 = BFN
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Nov&Dec-Provera because of no period after 35+ days
First RE appt 1/10/2013
Tests: TSH (normal), Prolactin (normal), SA (abnormal)
Hysteroscopy (normal) and PCOS labs (negative/normal) 1/15/2013
2/1/13- HPT BFP but Beta Hcg was negative
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We will definitely be finding out the sex of the baby...there is no way I could wait 9 months to find out
One thing we were talking about today were the 3D ultrasounds. We were saying we don't want to do this because it takes away
We will find out the sex so we can finish the nursery. Will have epidural, at home births or water births are just not for me.
I honestly have seen some 3D ultrasound pics and baby looked like a blob, kinda freaked me out. I'm unsure about
Trying since Jan 2011. Unexplained IF.
2 IUIs = BFN.
1 IVF (Dec 2013) = BFN.
FET, 2 frosties (June 13, 2014)
14dp5dt-June 27 -BFP, beta 2061. 2nd beta >5000, 3rd beta >5000, 2 sacs 06/30.
Twin Girls - 02/11/15 - at 37 weeks (no NICU, home with me at 3 days).
We definetley want to find out the sex. I am a planner and want to make sure I know if I am planning for a little b
I'm not sure if I will find out the gender. Part of me wants it to be a secret but my DH wants to know.
I would like to say I won't have an epidural but if the pains really bad I'm sure I will crack.
DX: Unexplained
BETA #1 59 BETA #2 148 BETA #3 283 BETA #4 2,783! US at 6w2d shows 1 bean measuring right on track! HR 121. US at 8w3d measuring on track HR 177. Released form my RE. EDD 12/28
Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
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Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
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I'm pretty sure that we will not be finding out the sex. DH has made it clear that he would prefer to keep it a surprise. And I'm okay with that, too.
I'd prefer to go drug-free, but we'll see what happens.
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TTC #1 since 06.2011 Me-24 DH-24
12.2011 SA = Normal
06.2012 First visit with OB/GYN
10.2012 Clomid 50mg + TI = BFN
11.2012 Clomid 50mg + TI = BFN
12.2012 Clomid 100mg + TI = BFN
01.2013 First visit with RE
02.2013 Clomid 150mg + TI = BFN
03.2013 Femara 5mg + TI = BFN
05.2013 Femara 5mg + TI = BFN
06.2013 Femara 7.5mg + TI = BFN
*Taking a break*
I go back and forth about whether to be team green or not. I don't think DH could handle it though. Or handle his mother not knowing, for that matter.
I would like to go natural, but I'm not so sure I would last...
Yes, we want to find out the gender. Or at least, we did the last time we talked about it. I haven't changed my mind. I want to be able to get the nursery and everything set up.
Definitely want the drugs. I am a huge wuss and have no intention of
We will find out the gender - I hate surprises
My birth plan is a shot of whiskey and an epidural for each kid. I'm hoping for triplets.
I don't want to find out the sex, but I'm not sure DH will agree, so we shall see when the time comes.
I am petrified of spinal needles, and plan on going drug free. I am not interested in a home birth though.
Dx: Unexplained Infertility, probable endometriosis
Feb-April 2013: Femara + TI: BFN
May - September 2013: Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI#1-4 = BFN
IVF # 1 November 2013: transferred 1 perfect blast = BFN
IVF # 2 April 2014: Endo scrape, transferred 2 blasts = BFP!! (first ever!), CP
FET #1 June 2014: transferred 2 blasts = BFFN
New Dx: Repeat Implantation Failure
IVF # 3 November 2014 = BFP!! Beta #1 9dp5t 272 Beta # 2 11dp5dt 626
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After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013.
Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
1/7/2015 Twins born @ 34 weeks
We will definitely be finding out the gender. Since we are likely going to be one and done at this point, I want to buy everything gender specific, set up the nursery completely, etc. I'm too much of a planner and hate surprises anyway.
As for th
PCOS (anovulatory and amenorrhea) and hypothyroid.
Currently taking Metformin 1500 MG and Synthroid.
Prior HSG and DH SAs were clear.
Feb 2013 - Switched clinics/RE and starting from the beginning again with some modifications.
Current status: CD 3 appointment showed lining was too thick (11.5 mm). Endometrial biopsy scheduled for CD 11. Next steps will be based on results.
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Hmm as far as drugs, I think I will get them. I am a major wuss. I was in the room when my mom had my (much younger) brother and she had no drugs and it was all fine and dandy and no p
I hope I can be a future member of team green!
I agree that the IF journey has changed my ideas about childbirth. I used to want to do the midwife/Birth Center childbirth, but now I'm more more flexible in my thinking: I'd like to labo
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Twins born March 2014 at 26 weeks due to preterm labor
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