I had the best talk with BM over the weekend. We talked for hours about all kinds of stuff. I tried to give her my (and DH's) point of view about alot of things that she may not have understood before. I also told her, multiple times, that I do respect her as SD's mom and I would never, never try to replace her or be more important than her. She was really grateful to hear it.
So for the time being we are on the same page. It's really nice to not be arguing all the time. I hope it lasts.
Re: Great talk with BM!
Best of luck!
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013 Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013