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So I knew this was going to come up

rachaelT28rachaelT28 member
in October 2013 Moms
I do not have a relationship with my mother, not at all. I still speak to her mother, (my grandmother) well I told her that I am pregnant and she immediately started on me about my mom. Don't you think you should tell her she is going to be a grandmother again? Uh well NO!! She has not seen my oldest son in over five years, she could pass him on the street and not know him. She has never met my second and I don't see the point in telling her about a third child. I was as kind as I could be to my grandmother, I very nicely said while I can understand where she is coming from I do not plan on telling my mother anything. My pregnancies are high risk already and difficult to get through without my mother drunk and high coming around to interfere. I just wish I could get my grandmother to understand.
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  • Kfudge0714Kfudge0714
    I'm sorry your going through this. I completely understand... I do not speak to my mother. She wasn't invited to my wedding this past summer and as far as I'm concerned she will never met my child either. Don't stress about it, Grandma is probably just sa


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  • elllafelllaf member
    My husband and I had a long discussion about whether I should tell my mother about our LO. I also do not speak to her. I haven't fully decided if I'm going to ever let her be a part of our LO life ...there's too much strain between us I wouldn't want it t
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  • 3222w27thst3222w27thst member
    wow thats alot to deal with being high risk and family issues but If i was in your position I wouldnt tell my mother either. Ive been on bed rest alrady once and still in my 1st trimester so I agree with less stress the better. You and your will be in my
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  • charlydoomcharlydoom member
    In your grandmothers shoes, I can see where she is coming from, I mean, your mom IS her daughter. She probably just feels bad for her. On the other hand, I am totally on your side about not telling her, no one needs that kind of person around them or thei
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