October 2012 Moms

S/O half birthdays...

This has got me thinking about their first birthday. This is probably a UO and very premature, but I want your opinions on the matter. I love one year parties for the cake smash part, but despise watching parents trying to get their uninterested one year old to open gifts. I also don't think it's neccessary to buy cards for one year olds. Have any of you been to a first birthday party where there were no gifts, only a cake smash? I'll bet everyone would think I was a total Biotch if I reqested no gifts for their first birthday party. Thoughts?

 

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  • I honestly think that if you requested no gifts some people would respect that, and others would not. It's just the way the world works in my experience.

    I know their are people in my sons life who enjoy being able to get him things and would be

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  • You could just open presents after. But I refuse to participate in this discussion for 5 and a quarter more months.
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  • I bring this up because we just went to two first birthday parties within the past month. Both times the poor babies were just ready for naps, and their parents tried to get them to look at cards, open presents and look at their new toys. It was just s

     

  • We have been to about 3 1st birthday parties and the kids did not open the gifts.  

    We don't plan on having a big party and we will not make E open his gifts, I was in pain watching him try to open 2 Easter gifts... can you imagine watching

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  • We didnt open DD1s gifts at her party,  we did it later that night when she was asleep. I dont think anyone minded, or if they did, they didnt tell me! We made sure to send out specific thank you cards so the guests knew we opened them and noted w

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  • We didn't open up gifts at DD1's 1st birthday party, we did have a little after party at our house though for my sister and her family, my parents, my inlaws and brother in law and we opened up all the presents then - after DD1 took her nap!

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