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NBR: April Fool's "Pregnancy Announcements"

Does this bother anybody else?? My Newsfeed is literally flooded with people posting stock photos of positive HPTs, and claiming to be pregnant.

Some people really have a hard time getting/staying pregnant, it bothers me that people find it funny to joke about.

Buuut, maybe in my overly cranky state lately, I'm just being surly. I don't know Stick out tongue

What do you guys think (about the posts, not my surly-ness, haha)

First M/C - March 2006, pregnancy not known about.
BFP#1 03/17/12 DD 11/09/12 Missed MC 05/14/12 (No growth past 9wk1d) D&C 05/22/12
Removal of Ovarian Cyst 07/27/12
BFP#2 09/17/12 DD 05/29/13 STICK BABY STICK!

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  • It annoys me too. I've seen an image floating around that describes why it's so stupid for people to do. Hopefully someone who actually knows how to PIP will post it!
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  • I think it's gross and tacky. I would NEVER joke about that sort of thing on FB. I can't imagine how people think it's funny/cute.
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    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
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  • imageashleyross:

    Here is that picture. I've actually seen it pop up on my newsfeed on fb. <img src="https://www.tatertwins.com/wp


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  • I'm thankful I haven't seen any this year, but I did see a few last year, and those stung a lot, with one miscarriage behind us and no luck TTCAL yet.
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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  • I've been amazed at the number iof Oct 2013 posters who have announced their real pregnancies on FB today, thinking it's funny that people won't be able to figure out if it's true or not. I just don't get it.
    Mommy to Alden, born May 19, 2007 - best birthday present ever! natural m/c October 20, 2008 at 8w1d BFP April 4, 2009! Missed m/c discovered May 1, 2009 D&C May 12,2009 BFP March 3, 2010 Chemical pregnancy BFP May 25, 2010 Elias Derek born January 26, 2011! Surprise BFP October 24, 2012 Missed m/c confirmed Nov 26 D&C Nov 30 Surprise BFP February 13, 2013
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  • Yup, irritates the crap out of me!!
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    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

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  • It really bothers me. I know so many people who have lost LO's and have had a hard time getting/staying pregnant. I think it's very insensitive.

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     Ayla 10/02/2013, 10:14 am, 6lbs 14oz, 19.25 inches long
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  • I've seen that picture float around a few times now, and I appreciate the sentiment. Unfortunately, it's just been more and more of the same as the day goes on.

    It's actually sad  how many people have posted the same thing today. Apparently

    First M/C - March 2006, pregnancy not known about.
    BFP#1 03/17/12 DD 11/09/12 Missed MC 05/14/12 (No growth past 9wk1d) D&C 05/22/12
    Removal of Ovarian Cyst 07/27/12
    BFP#2 09/17/12 DD 05/29/13 STICK BABY STICK!

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  • Thankfully I have not seen any fakes on FB, but I have seen the above pic. I'm mostly pissed at how many people on the October board said if it bothers you that you are being "too sensitive".  

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  • Yes, it bothers me and yes I've seen them today. People just have no idea how their actions can be hurtful. It's not something to joke about, imo.
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    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

  • imagedeltagirl79:
    Thankfully I have not seen any fakes on FB, but I have seen the above pic. I'm mostly pissed at how many people o

    First M/C - March 2006, pregnancy not known about.
    BFP#1 03/17/12 DD 11/09/12 Missed MC 05/14/12 (No growth past 9wk1d) D&C 05/22/12
    Removal of Ovarian Cyst 07/27/12
    BFP#2 09/17/12 DD 05/29/13 STICK BABY STICK!

    PgAL MARCH SIGGY CHALLENGE: PET SHAMING

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    10/1/12 miracle BFP 11/12/12 missed m/c (9w2d), baby stopped growing at 7 weeks
    1/16/13 BFP, EDD 9/27/13, m/c 1/19/13
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    2/12/13 BFP, EDD 10/25/13 Please stick little one
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    10/1/12 miracle BFP 11/12/12 missed m/c (9w2d), baby stopped growing at 7 weeks
    1/16/13 BFP, EDD 9/27/13, m/c 1/19/13
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    2/12/13 BFP, EDD 10/25/13 Please stick little one
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  • I am actually bothered by the ones that say "surprise! we are having twins!" when they aren't. It makes me think of all of the women who were having multiples and no longer are.
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  • I completely agree. They bother me too. Like Chelsea Handler's announcement on her show last night.... when she is definitely not expecting. Ugh.
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  • I had the same thing happen yesterday and I felt like you, its not a game and and not funny to pretend.
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  • imageravenclaw1:
    I think it's gross and tacky. I would NEVER joke about that sort of thing on FB. I can't imagine how people think

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