April 2013 Moms

One of the hardest nights of my life (Loss mentioned)

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Many of you know my dog Bear has been struggling with health issues.  About two weeks ago he started having troubles walking... after a trip to the vet and new medication we were hopeful he was doing well.  

Well this last week he took a turn for the worst, he had problems walking again and wouldn't eat.  Bear is a big boy and normally does not miss a meal.  This was concerning, after a few days of monitoring his life we decided to set an appointment to put him down.  It has been hard waiting for D-day (which was scheduled for tomorrow morning at 10am), and I haven't said anything on here because I did not want to bring the group down when everyone should be so happy with all the babies being born.  

Today was hard and about 7pm it became clear he was not going to make it through the night.  We it was sad and horrible!!  We gave him as much love as possible and a friend came over to help us get him in the car (he weighs 150lbs and obviously I cannot help my DH lift him).  As we arrived to the hospital he took his last breath and went to heaven.  We stayed with him for a while and continued to give him love and say our goodbyes.  I know he is in a better place and it was for the best but it was still very difficult.  I cannot stop crying and every one around me is telling me to stop and care for the baby inside of me.  I am doing everything I can to care for her but I cannot stop crying and I wish people would stop telling me that.

Bear was the best dog any one could ask for, he was loving, gentle, well mannered, and the best friend you could ever ask for.  There wasn't a single person that met him that did not fall in love.  Bear melted hearts everywhere and helped where he could as a therapeutic dog.  An angel returned home tonight.

Bear Rest In Peace

 

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for comfort ascending. 
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved pet.  I know how it feels and only time will lessen the pain. 
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  • So sorry for ur loss..Ik what its like to live a pet that much..they are family more than a pet.
  • I'm so sorry to hear of Bear's passing... He was a beautiful dog! It's always heartbreaking to lose a pet. To me, they are a part of our family as well.
  • I am so sorry that he passed away. Thank you for sharing his pictures and his story. He sounds like he was a wonderful companion and he was a cutie. Don't let others tell you how to grieve. It doesn't hurt your baby to mourn the loss of someone you loved
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  • So sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is one of the hardest things.. They are so much like family. My condolences =[
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  • I'm so sorry.  I've been through the loss of a beloved pet and I know the pain all too well.  I'm so glad that you were with him in his final moments.  
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  • I am so so sorry you're going through this.

    Our dog is such a big part of our family and I can't imagine how devestated I would be to lose him.

    Judging from the pictures, you have some lovely memories. I hope you can take comfort in those.

  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine losing my dogs ever really but especially at a time like this when you have so much to be happy about. You're in my T & P!
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. We lost one of our cats shortly after we found out we were expecting. I remember it was so hard to even think about a baby when my heart was hurting so much for the loss of our Linus. I still have days that I just start c
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  • I am terribly sorry for your loss. Losing a family member is so difficult, even if you know it is in their best interest. You gave Bear everything you could and made the last time he had on Earth a great time for him.

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  • I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you. Thoughts and prayers your family's way
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  • I am so sorry to hear about Bear.  I was saying prayers and hoping he would pull through.  Saying prayers for you and your family on this difficult day.
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  • So sorry for your loss.    My dogs are my kids and I know how heartbreaking it is to lose one!   ((hugs))

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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is never easy, it's amazing how quickly they become part of the family. Prayers to you and your family. Sad
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  • So sorry for your loss - very hard to lose a pet.  DH and I are dealing with a sick dog too...very hard to watch their decline. :(
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  • I'm so sorry, losing a pet really is one of the most awful things. My best friend lost her dog about a month before her son was born, and we like to think that he became an angel to watch over him.
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  • Im so sorry for your loss. Your puppy was precious. Losing a pet is incredibly hard. He was so lucky to have such a great mama!
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  • I'm so sorry, he was a beautiful dog- my heart is breaking for you. T and P
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I have dealt with this before, and understand why you feel the way you do! Don't let others dictate your emotions - this is your loss and you just let it out. It took me years to stop crying about my cat and I still have momen
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. My cats are seriously like children to me, and I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet. :-( 
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  • I am so sorry to hear about Bear. I had to put my cat down in December and those last few days were the hardest I'd been through in a very long time. Pets hold a very special place in our hearts, and it is SO HARD to say goodbye.

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  • My heart is broken for you. Your post has me crying too. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • I am sorry for your loss. I am glad you were able to surround Bear with love in his final moments. ::hugs:;
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  • I am so so sorry.  MH and I also had to go through something similar with our first cat last year.  I still claim that it was the hardest and saddest day of our lives.  T&P's coming your way.
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  • I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I know that losing a beloved dog is like losing a family member. I'm thinking of you and your family and wishing you some peace, comfort and healing. Huge hugs, mama. 
  • <teary> I am so sorry for your loss :( And dont listen to others telling you to stop crying, it is natural to mourn a loss of a pet especially when they are family to you. It will help heal you. Thoughts and prayers go to you and your family xoxo<br
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