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I just dont feel good / intro

FrieborFriebor member
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After an agonizing 8 day wait to confirm a blighted ovum, I had a D&C yesterday. My dr was totally willing to let me go "naturally" but said If i wanted the procedure I could do it. I am sad to admit that after the long wait, I was just ready to be done. 

 

Today, I just feel like garbage. I feel pale and ghosty, My stomach is a mess, my boobs hurt, I am emotional and I want my husband who has been gone since just a couple hours before the first appointment where I found out that our baby wasnt there.. he will not be home for another 3 weeks.

I am just tired and sleepless.. i want to cry but sometimes I cant, and my sister came 600 miles to spend the next week with us so she could see my RE and as much as I have missed her, I just can not find any joy in her being here.

I feel so lost and alone, even with a house full of people. I need my husband just to hold me and let me cry.. maybe just one good cry with his arms wrapped around me and I could feel better? I dont know.

 

I cant tell what is hormones and what is grief. I'm just a mess right now.

 

Sorry for the sucky intro :( 

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    dragonfly711dragonfly711 member

    So sorry for your loss.  What you are going through is normal.  I hate to say that but it is.  The first 2 weeks for me after my DnC were the worst. The first week was the worst. I stayed home from work, my hormones were just all out of

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    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
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    SaranJonathanSaranJonathan member

    Sorry you are here. I think what you are describing is normal.  had my d&c procedure 10 days ago. I am too a mess emotionally. Just let yourself cry. It's ok and expected to be sad. I took a pregnancy test yesterday and its still pretty positi

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    danalee75danalee75

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I just went through the same thing.  I had to wait 9 days to be told that there was no heart beat or growth and had my D and C on Friday.  Saturday I woke up feeling like I got hit by a bus.  Yesterday w

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