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Afterwards...

KeriLynnLKeriLynnL member
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Gotta ask so I don't feel like such a crazy... Any of you guys ever cry after sex? The other night after we finished I just started sobbing like crazy and got super emotional! Felt like an idiot afterwards and DH probably thought I was going crazy! But for real, how nice would be nice to concieve naturally without a doctor, meds and syringes!? Oh these hormones lately! Haha
Married Since May 2009
TTC #1 Since March 2011
Me: 27 - Bicornuate uterus; HSG clear
DH: 28 - Slightly abnormal motility & viscosity
Dec '12- Feb '13: Clomid/HCG = BFN
Mar '13: Femara/HCG/HSG & IUI #1 = BFN
April '13: Femara/HCG/IUI #2 = BFN
May '13: Clomid/HCG/IUI #3 = BFN
Taking a summer break...
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  • scbediscbedi
    Certainly would be nice!
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    Problem: Irregular menstruation, unexplained
    Nov&Dec-Provera because of no period after 35+ days
    First RE appt 1/10/2013
    Tests: TSH (normal), Prolactin (normal), SA (abnormal)
    Hysteroscopy (normal) and PCOS labs (negative/normal) 1/15/2013
    2/1/13- HPT BFP but Beta Hcg was negative
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  • ccollins06ccollins06 member

    I can't say I can relate to crying after sex, but crying at inopportune times, absolutely! It usually happens for me in public.  I'm sure we all have different "triggers"  but the underlying emotion is the same...will it ever happen for us???


    Off BC since 9/10;TTC since 7/11
    Me: 31 DH: 31
    DX: PCOS/anovulatory/Hypothyroid
    SA: normal
    HSG: all clear
    5 cycles of Clomid/Femara + TI
    IUI #1 (7/16/12) Femara 2.5,+ Trigger=BFN
    Treatment break Aug. 2012-June 2013
    IUI #2 (7/27/13)=BFP!!!
    Beta #1 @ 13dpiui --145!
    Beta #2 @ 19dpiui--2,550!
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  • GermanGirl2007GermanGirl2007 member
    No, but I get it. IF sucks, and it is hard to accept that TTC for us won't be the same experience that it is for most people.  It's not fun. It's not "natural" (in the sense that sex alone will do it), and the whole process is incredibly overwhelming

    ** After  2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of     Mini IVF! **

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  • vpinevpine member

    Ive never cried after sex but I did shed a tear this morning after watching 'Baby Mama' movie (Tina Fey, Amy Poehler comedy) because I loved the ending.

    Are you in the IUI #2 process yet which meds might make you extra sensitive?

     

    Me: 32, DH: 34.
    Trying since Jan 2011. Unexplained IF.
    2 IUIs = BFN.
    1 IVF (Dec 2013) = BFN.
    FET, 2 frosties (June 13, 2014)

    14dp5dt-June 27 -BFP, beta 2061. 2nd beta >5000, 3rd beta >5000, 2 sacs 06/30.
    Twin Girls - 02/11/15 - at 37 weeks (no NICU, home with me at 3 days).
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  • ccollins06ccollins06 member
    imagevpine:

    Ive never cried after sex but I did shed a tear this morning after watching 'Baby Mama' movie (Tina Fey, Amy Poehler co


    Off BC since 9/10;TTC since 7/11
    Me: 31 DH: 31
    DX: PCOS/anovulatory/Hypothyroid
    SA: normal
    HSG: all clear
    5 cycles of Clomid/Femara + TI
    IUI #1 (7/16/12) Femara 2.5,+ Trigger=BFN
    Treatment break Aug. 2012-June 2013
    IUI #2 (7/27/13)=BFP!!!
    Beta #1 @ 13dpiui --145!
    Beta #2 @ 19dpiui--2,550!
    BabyFetus Ticker
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  • babydreams13babydreams13 member
    I haven't but I get it.  It would be nice to conceive naturally like MOST other people.  All of my friends and family members have gotten pregnant without even really trying.  Its crazy how we have to go through all of this. Hang in there.
    ***SIGGY WARNING***

    DX: Unexplained
    6 Failed IUIs (Clomid and Gonal F).  
    IVF #1 began August 2013- BC, 4 days of Estrace, stimmed with Gonal F and Menopur, Ganirelix, 9R 5M 5F, Medrol and Doxycycline, 5 day transfer of 2 early blastocysts- good quality, Progesterone, Estrace, and baby aspirin, BETA on 9/20 BFN,   IVF #2 began September 2013, stimming with Gonal F (higher dose) and Menopur, Ganirelix, 18R 14M 9F with ICSI, 5 day transfer of 2 BBs one was starting to hatch, 2 frosties: 1  BB and 1 AC, BETA on 10/21, BFN BETA was a 5- chemical 
    Getting some more testing and trying to figure out what the issue is before FET in December, started acupuncture on 11/10, RLP and some other BW nothing major to report except slightly high Prolactin. Prolactin was slightly high when I started with my RE and I already had an MRI which was Neg.  Endo biopsy=negative.  WTF is wrong with us???
    12/18/13 FET of 1 BB and 1 AC.  Hoping for a miracle.  Beta 12/26 Low BETA-8 2nd BETA 5- chemical
    After 3 failed transfers IDK where to go from here.  Still no real answers as to why this isn't working.  Getting a second opinion in February and looking into immune testing.  
    2/14- NEW RE- Immune testing showed a partial dq alpha match with DH- On prednisone and did intralipids prior to transfer.  3/14 Lupron, gonal f, menopur, HGH.  ER 15 mature all 15 fertilized!  5dt of an early blast grade 1 and an expanded blast grade 2.  BETA on 4/21.  1 grade 2 embryo frozen
    BETA #1 59 BETA #2 148 BETA #3 283 BETA #4 2,783! US at 6w2d shows 1 bean measuring right on track! HR 121.  US at 8w3d measuring on track HR 177. Released form my RE.  EDD 12/28


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  • rox825rox825 member
    imageGermanGirl2007:
    No, but I get it. IF sucks, and it is hard to accept that TTC for us won't be the same experience that it is for mo

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    TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
    Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
    Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
    Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!

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  • weansworld09weansworld09 member

    I haven't cried after sex, but I understand the emotions.  I lost one of my wedding bands recently.  When I found it, I burst into sobs.  Something just clicked in my head and all the tears I had been holding back came rushing out. IF ca

    *******Siggy Warning*******

    *Married since 11/20/10*
    *TTC since 1/12*
    *Me - PCOS * DH - Azoo*
    *IUI clomid 5/13 - BFN*
    *IUI clomid 6/13 - BFN*
    *IUI clomid 7/13 - Cancelled due to poor response*
    *IUI follistim 9/13 - Cancelled due to over response*
    *IVF #1 - 13R, 5M, 4F, 2 transferred on day 3 - BFN & nothing to freeze*
    *IVF #2 - 7R, 4M, 4F, 2 transferred on day 3 - BFP!!!!*
    *Beta #1 15dp3dt >2,000, Beta #2 21dp3dt >17,000!*
    *U/S on 6/27/14 @ 6w4d - 2 sacs, 1 HB found @ 125bpm!*
    *First OB appt 7/24/14*

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  • Cara1024Cara1024 member
    I will fess up to this. It has only happened once, and luckily DH had already jumped in the shower. Right after he got up I just cried because he was excited that "that could have been it" and I knew that it was just not at all likely. That was right afte
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  • emtbd26emtbd26
    I have totally cried after sex! I think it was the fact I was laying there thinking of all the shots, doctor appts, internal sono and how some people just oooops get prego! Luckily DH had already left room!

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    *Me 28 Husband 31

    *TTC since 10/2009

    *10/2010Tried 1 cycle of clomid 50mg with no results

    *12/2010 On break due to needing a new OB and money reasons

    5/5/12 Underwent exploratory surgery and had tubes blown out- no issues found

    5/5/12 DH had SA and numbers look great

    7/2102 50mg dose of clomid with ovulation and timed sex no results

    8/12 Clomid cylce #3- no success

    8/30 Went to see RE and we have decided to move onto IUI attempts

    10/18 IUI#1 BFN and cyst developed so on hold

    11/17 IUI cycle #2 BFN
    IUI #3,4,5,6 =BFN

    First round of IVF- 2 fresh transfered Beta=20, 37 than ended in M/C- Will do frozen transfer in Sept!

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