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sex wimp

I am yet to have sex since we found out. I am not sure what I am terrified of...maybe my mc in November that made me feel breakable? DH is amazing and supportive but enough is enough! Idk but regardless any words of advice

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Re: sex wimp

  • I haven't had sex since I found out either.  I think once I get reach the markers of the pervious losses I will feel better about it....I think.
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  • imageLilyBean06:
    I haven't had sex since I found out either. nbsp;I think once I get reach the markers of the pervious losses I will fee

     

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  • Hubby was very accepting of my fears, but I found they seemed to ease off quite a bit after passing the point where we MC back in June.  We took things really easy the first time, and I think that that is the key, it also helped that hubby said we wi

    BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09
    BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
    BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13

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  • It was scary for me at first too. We talked about it, and decided if it got uncomfortable to stop. It won't make you miscarry, but u may spot. Thankfully, every time I orgasm, baby starts moving a bunch. It is kind of comforting.
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  • With two of our previous losses we had sex a day or two before the loss. This time we have both agreed that sex isn't worth it. So we're on self-imposed pelvic rest for the duration. As difficult it might be in the short term it isn't worth the anxiety. <
    BFP #1 - Missed M/C, D&C 3.21.11

    BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w. Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
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    BFP  #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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  • I feel like that is completely normal. I was having issues this time around and didn't really want to get intimate for a long time after getting my BFP. I know though in my case it is because with both my losses, after being intimate I had spotting. I nev
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  • imagedandywarhol:
    With two of our previous losses we had sex a day or two before the loss. This time we have both agreed that sex isn'
  • imagedandywarhol:
    With two of our previous losses we had sex a day or two before the loss. This time we have both agreed that sex isn'
  • imagedandywarhol:
    With two of our previous losses we had sex a day or two before the loss. This time we have both agreed that sex i
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