~*~DE/DEmbryo/GC Check-in~*~

This group is open to anyone who has already gone through donor egg/donor embryo/gestational carrier, is in the process of it, or plans on doing it in the future.

This check-in posted each Tuesday.  If you?d like to be added to this group, please reply to this message, and I?ll make sure to add you for next week.  Welcome to the lurkers!  We know this can be a difficult journey, but we welcome you with open arms.  Let us know if we can answer any questions.

GRADUATES ARE WELCOME AND ENCOURAGED TO POST!

FACEBOOK GROUP: Yellow_Daisy has restarted a PRIVATE Facebook group (meaning no one can see it in your feed, that you are a member, etc.) for the ladies from IF and SAIF who are using/have used donor eggs/embryos or donor sperm and who are active and consistent posters on the IF, IFV, PAIF, or SAIF boards and the weekly check-in.  If you have been a part of thebump and the check-in and would like to join, please page Yellow_Daisy and ask for an invitation to the group.   

Status Update: Where are you currently with the DE/DEmbryo/ GC process?

QOTW: How have your interactions with medical staff people been during your IF journey? Anything that has really annoyed you?

I?m so sorry to those of you who have experienced heartache and loss in the past few weeks. My heart goes out to you.  (((HUGS))) especially to 2MamazInSeattle. BabyVDM, ceemonkey, liz4paws, and Mrs.McIrish 

Sorry for all the delays and setbacks you are experiencing strunella! We are here for you!

Hugs to chicagobride_07 on the complications you are experiencing!

Wishing all the best to the March/April cyclers!: happywifemomofone, mollykelley, and moonaggie

Our most heartfelt congratulations to erink1981!

Warm welcome to LittleLady77!

Currently Cycling or on BCP?s or Lupron

happywifemomofone ? 100% OOP, considering shared DE cycle, DE consult scheduled at Advanced Fertility went well, would like to cycle in June or July, contemplating guarantee programs, delaying cycle due to financial considerations, selected donor, all preliminary testing is complete, meeting with psychologist arranged for early November, continuing to wait for cycle anticipated for early- to mid-February, selected a new donor who was then removed from the donor registry, selected fourth donor, PCP, lawyer, and RE appointments complete, started Lupron, baseline on 3/18, ER anticipated for between 4/2 and 4/4 with transfer between 4/5 and 4/9  

indianasun ? 2 1/2 year-old son from cycle with OE, pursuing DE and started donor search, chose a donor and have an appointment with RE on 9/10, next steps are for donor to have medical and psychological testing, then will sign contracts, current donor straight off a successful cycle in December, started Lupron on 1/11 and Estrace on 2/7, retrieval estimated for 2/27, donor?s baseline u/s looking good! Transfer complete

mollykelley ? Same sex couple doing shared maternity IVF with donor sperm after five failed IUIs and one loss, monitoring on 3/1 showed good response to stims, ER anticipated for 3/8, hoping for fresh transfer in early mid-March  

moonaggie ? Pursuing anonymous donor eggs, frozen DE transfer anticipated for 2/11, on Lupron and Estrace, cycle cancelled because embryos did not grow past 4-cell stage, starting a fresh cycle with a different donor, started Lupron, ER and ET anticipated around the first week of April
  

reb259 ? DE consult schedule for 11/3, DE IVF#1 with frozen eggs did not work out (((hugs))) WTF and appointment with reproductive urologist scheduled, phone consult with RBA went well, meeting with psych and had more blood work done on 4/20, picked a donor! Finished BCP?s, planning travel to RBA for thaw and fert on 6/4, u/s on 5/30 to check lining, hoping it is 8+ transferred 2 low grade embies, home test negative ((Hugs)), on BCP?s, see RE on 1/31, cycle anticipated for mid-February  

Sophistikitty ? Slated for DE cycle in January, have selected donor and signed agency agreement, calendar received! Start Lupron second week of January, ET anticipated for the first week of February, started BCP?s, new diagnosis of adenomyosis, concern about donor cancelling some appointments    

Waiting to Cycle/Between Cycles

BabyVDM ? Probable diagnosis of age-related egg quality issue, cancer survivor! pursuing DE, contacted two West coast clinics, phone consult with PNWF, donor?s eggs added to frozen bank, conversation with clinic and they will hold 1-2 sets of eggs depending on number retrieved, phone consult rescheduled, repeat SA on 12/13, hoping for FET around the week of 2/12, u/s on 1/23, TSH OK, continuing on Lupron and estrogen patches, 3 beautiful frozen embryos! Lining looking good, transfer complete! Need to follow up after routine MRI showed something that needs further investigation, biopsy needed for nodules, DE FET#1 ended in m/c    

BeckyP005 ? 2 IUI?s both BFN?s, RE says DE is best option, not 100% sure about this option but beginning required testing, repeat mammogram needed, second mock cycle completed, lining looking good, SHG complete, put on thyroid meds, DH needing to get blood work done, on the DE waiting list! (6 months) - #10!  

ceemonkey ? High FSH on her side and Sertoli-cell only syndrome on DH's side, joined donor embryo program and submitted some picks, phone consult with a new double donor split cycle program completed, ordered blood work, officially left old clinic, in-person consult with new clinic complete, psych consult went well, accepted a profile, on Lupron and Vivelle, lining check on 11/30 went well, ET of 2 blasts completed on 12/13, low betas, m/c ((hugs)), accepted a new profile! On Lupron and Vivelle, lining check on 2/22 and transfer planned for 2/28, travel interrupted by major snow storm, lining check looked great, ET scheduled for 3/14  

ebdubbed ? Matched with a donor through an agency and waiting for her to be approved by clinic, need day two blood draws and unmedicated cycle before insurance will cover anything, officially matched and waiting for donor to fly to clinic for her work up, everything cleared up with insurance, small amount of coverage left, everything is moving forward! Donor doing testing, planning on a May transfer, also doing hail mary cycle with OE (EPP)  

glueck ? Pursuing DE through a clinic in Czech Republic, tentative transfer date of 10/6, filled out anonymous donor selection paperwork and matched with donor, mock cycle has begun, ER estimated for 9/24-25 and ET for 9/29-30, delayed because Essure scarring process was not complete, transfer set for 12/9! ER complete ? 9R, 7M, 6F, 5dt complete of 2 grade A blasts

Jen12573 ? History of several issues including high FSH, hyperthyroidism, uterine fibroids, POF, and mild endo, meeting with RE to discuss donor embryo program was on 8/10, feel very positively about program, on two DEmbryo wait lists, meeting with new donor embryo program on 2/25 that went extremely well, four donor embryo files to choose from, hoping for cycle in May, next steps are saline sono and blood work      

kbrodie06 ? Has a 3-year-old daughter, researching DE for second child, checking with doctors in the area and weighing options, secured a shared donor! Found a new donor after previous donor pregnant, started Lupron on 9/25, DE ER complete ? 17 eggs from shared cycle, all fertilized normally! 5dt on 10/21 of one 4AA embryo, BFP followed by miscarriage ((((HUGS))))     

krod2010 ? IVF #6 with identical twin as donor, 16 eggs retrieved but none fertilized ((((hugs)))), DE cycle, ET 1/16, transferred 3 blasts, nothing to freeze, BFP followed by m/c, cycling with the same donor again? 30 eggs retrieved, transferred two blasts, chemical pregnancy ((((HUGS))), 18 frozen embryos, hysteroscopy and laparoscopy complete, started delestrogen, FET on 6/15, Beta negative ((hugs)), planning to cycle again

LittleLady77 ? Met with RE who will do DE cycle, working on picking a donor   

may2806 ? DE IVF cycle was BFP, having bleeding episodes but heartbeat is good, NT scan went great but blood work showed high HCG and low Papp-A, amnio scheduled but not done, late m/c ((((HUGS)))), determined to be caused by a huge SCH behind the placenta, hysteroscopy showed uterus looks normal, waiting for next cycle with donor, completed Lupron Depot, now starting daily Lupron and IVIG, transfer 6/20 Beta 1 ? 261, beta 2 ? 546, 6 week u/s shows twins M/C ((hugs)), FET in December, things seem to be on track now

liz4paws ? No response to max stims with IVF, moving on to embryo adoption, signed up with Miracles Waiting, also on waiting list with RE for when they start their donor embryo program, accepted 5 frozen embryos from a woman in VA, working on paperwork and hope to have contract signed soon, found RE willing to do FET of embryos, frozen embryos arrived in Texas, started BCP?s and set to start Lupron, FET delayed from 2/8 to 2/11, baseline and blood work complete, hoping for some insurance coverage for cycle  

Mrs.McIrish ? Passed lining cycle and have been matched with a donor, ER initially anticipated for the second week in October, ovulated after stopped estrace, e2 producing cyst at baseline so delayed at least 3 weeks, started Lupron and baby aspirin, cleared baselines!, donor started stims on 10/13, ER estimated for 10/24, lining and E2 check on 10/19, donor stimming slowly, ER complete, low quality embryos and unsuccessful cycle (((HUGS))), DNA fragmentation test was normal, saline sono done, new donor selected with ER/ET anticipated for late January, hysteroscopy and D&C (polyp removal) completed on 12/5, started Lupron on 1/2, donor bailed on cycle! Selected new donor from those available, beta on 2/1, cycle ended in m/c, CFNBC (((HUGS)))

MrsT4 ? Fresh DE cycle resulted in chemical pregnancy (((HUGS))), four DE frosties, pursuing additional testing before FET planned for sometime this spring, immune panel and other blood work done, getting more labs run and then will schedule phone consult, setback due to needing to redo blood work, consultation scheduled for March, possibly doing immune treatments, hoping to cycle in June, phone consult with RI complete, now will follow up with RE    

mtlaurel ? Pursuing DE after two failed IVF cycles, DE consult complete, DH?s SA numbers are up, chose a donor! started BCP?s on 4/3, another recipient selected donor! ER anticipated for 6/13 with ET on 6/18, started Lupron week of 5/17, started delestrogen on 5/28, dilapan done, next up is lining check, transfer of 2 grade A embryos, Beta on 6/28 C/P ((hugs)) working on improving DH?s issues, DH?s karyotyping normal, endo biopsy normal

rewdew ? Going straight to DE with ICSI after removal of one ovary and elevated FSH, also dealing with MFI, DE IVF #1 = BFN (((hugs))), 2 morulas frozen, planning on natural FET

stinkerbell6879 ? Beginning to look more seriously into DE, phone consult this week, looking into DE/Fresh vs. frozen, etc., consult scheduled, mock cycle monitoring and HSG complete, waiting on OBGyn appointment regarding fluid in uterus, DH needs to get SA done, psych eval and nurse consult complete, found out insurance will not cover frozen eggs, RE recommending endometrial biopsy, saline sono, and RLP

stinkerbell6879 ? Beginning to look more seriously into DE, phone consult this week, looking into DE/Fresh vs. frozen, etc., consult scheduled, mock cycle monitoring and HSG complete, waiting on OBGyn appointment regarding fluid in uterus, DH needs to get SA done  

strunella ? AMA, low AMH, three losses (((hugs))), initial DE consult complete, scheduled psych eval and meeting with nurse, looking into frozen eggs to minimize wait time and costs, still deciding on frozen vs. fresh and which clinic to use, several tests planned for 2/4 (saline sonogram, endometrial biopsy and repeat loss panel), had to repeat endo biopsy which tested positive for endometriosis, arranged local monitoring, experiencing some delays in getting records, hoping for May transfer  

SuzanneJesse ? Secondary recipient in shared DE cycle (2nd IVF after failed cycle with OE), ER last Sunday, 10 fertilized normally, 9 still growing, 5dt of 2 embryos, beta on 11/11, 4 frozen embryos, C/P, WTF appointment, now looking at uterine and thyroid issues (thyroglobulin antibodies ? precursor to Hashimoto?s), will ask to be put on Synthroid, consulting with hematologist regarding the possibility of Lovenox, BA, and Folgard, SHG coming up

Looking into Options

BootsOrHearts ? Talking with RE about whether to use OE or DE, severe DOR and AMA, currently planning FET with biological eggs, if go DE route, will investigate shared cycles and frozen donor egg banks   

brooklynesque ? May try one more cycle with OE but considering DE due to serious egg maturity issues, started looking at DE profiles and agencies

BzeetyD ? Considering DE after one more cycle with OE, researching clinics and looking for databases/registries that offer semi-open donation, WTF consult scheduled to discuss cycling with OE and possibly DE

hrtbreakr ? Has been going through IVF/Infertility for 4 years, told DE is the best option   

kflynn81 ? Currently cycling with OE, hoping to cycle again by July, starting to research DE options, getting several second opinions, phone consult with CCRM on 2/21

~*~Graduates~*~

2MamazInSeattle ? DE cycle, ET anticipated for December 9-15, found lower price for Follistim, suppression check on 11/6 and everything looked good, signed consents and made payment, DS delivered, , lining looked good, donor started stims on 11/25, ER ? 19R, 14M, 11F, 5dt completed! Transferred one blast and have 3 frosties, positive HPT?s ? BFP! Saw the heartbeat! NT scan and cell-free DNA test on 2/8  

AmCheri ? BFP after first DE cycle, 5dt of one embie resulted in baby girl with due date of 6/16, donor cycling again in April for some hopeful frozen embryos  

amethysgrrl ? Pursuing DE, have selected a clinic and a donor, planning for a June cycle, successfully completed evaluation cycle and had SHG done, got calendar! Began Lupron on 5/22, Cleared to begin cycle! ER planned between 6/14 and 6/17 with ET between 6/17 and 6/22, transfer complete, Beta 7/2 ? BFP! Twins! First OB appt. was on 8/6, two boys! A/S scheduled for 10/17, baby boys born 1/15/13 at 32 1/2 weeks    

ashleyann82 ? Chose a new donor after first one backed out, shared cycle, DE eSET on 6/19, 4 frozen, BFP! Heartbeat is looking great on ultrasounds, baby looked great on a/s, it?s a BOY!, failed GTT, appointments set up with RN and dietician, going to start exercising more and watching diet, hit 35/35 milestone

bluebabka ? DE IVF #1 - 13 eggs retrieved, ET of 2 blasts on 2/19, BFP! First u/s showed two but follow-up showed one beautiful baby with a heartbeat of 174, baby boy born 11/3 via C-section, planning on FET in April or May

BRSAugust20 ? BFP (singleton)! J is here! Contemplating next steps regarding frozen embryo, on RESOLVE parent panels!

Bubs711 ? Selected donor! Sonogram as follow-up from mammogram showed fibrocystic breasts, biopsy of both breasts on 2/16 ? mass was drained, TSH came back high, went on Synthroid, ET of 2 day 5 embryos, beta #1 = 477, beta #2=1,777, first u/s on 4/25 showed one heartbeat, EDD is 12/12/12, it?s a girl!

chicagobride_07 ? DE-IVF cycle in July was a BFN, follow-up testing showed elevated lupus anti-coagulant (hematologist thinks it was an aberration), blood work - waiting for results, pap, mammogram - normal, TSH high - referred to a medical endocrinologist, everything came back normal, started delestrogen in preparation for FET, everything looked good with lining check and blood work, ET of 2 blasts, somewhat low betas, Betas continued to rise! Heart heartbeat at u/s! Bleeding scare but everything still looking good, U/S at just over 9 weeks looked good! Tapering off of PIO, Verifi test looked good, it?s a girl! Vasa previa, MFM appointment coming up, looking at C-section, early delivery, and possible bed rest   

dreamalotmp ? DOR, AMA, DE IVF + ICSI cycle, chose donor, cycle planned for November, donor dropped out of the program but selected a new one, ER and ET complete, BFP! Beta #1 = 243, Beta #2 = 489, first u/s showed one healthy developing yolk sac, everything looked good on first trimester screening, diagnosed with gestational diabetes, great anatomy scan on 3/5 showed a girl!  First monthly growth u/s complete, baby looking great, baby daughter H. born on 8/1  

erink1981 ? Pursuing DE after three losses and jumping into the domestic adoption process, Currently in DE IVF cycle (guarantee program), started Lupron on 1/13, met with MFM to discuss decisions about embryo transfer given other medical issues, recommended transferring 1 embryo, started on estrogen, DE retrieval anticipated for 2/13 or 2/14, lining looked good, donor started stims, retrieval set for last Friday, 3dt of 2 embryos complete, none made it to freeze, BFP on HPT?s! Betas looking good!   

hooliface ? DE cycle, transferred 2 embryos (8 cell compounding grade B+ and an 8 cell grade on day 3, BFP!   

Imanurse03 ? DE IVF #1 - ER on 5/31, ET on 6/4, 16 frozen embryos! BFP! It?s a BOY! Complications including low amniotic fluid levels, IUGR, welcomed baby boy on 1/18/12! Making some decisions about timing of FET for baby #2

jcath ? Donor egg cycle with frozen egg bank, chose donor and back-up, had endo biopsy, 5dt on 1/26, beta #1 = 118, betas have been good, first u/s on 2/21 showed identical twin girls! Arrived safely on 9/2/11, talking more each day, officially donated remaining frozen embryo

jhleap ? Has a toddler from DE, did an FET in November and got a BFP, expecting baby #2 in early August, first OB appointment scheduled for week of 1/16, baby girl born 8/10!  

JM1977 ? DE IVF #1 = BFN, DE IVF #2 - eSET on day 5 (12/15/10), beta on 12/28 = 1,035, beta on 12/30 = 2,234, first OB appointment showed baby measuring right on track, baby girl M arrived on 8/30/11! TTC #2: Mock ET, sonogram, and blood work on 11/12, transfer of 1 frozen embryo on 1/21, beta on 2/4 = 5,213, everything looking good at first u/s on 2/20

koyn ? Cycled at RBA, transferred 2 embryos on 9/19, froze 1, BFP!! Beta #3 was 14,621, first u/s showed TWINS! 1st MFM appointment and saw both babies dancing around

LBR_NJ/LisaBRM ? BFP! Baby girl Alana arrived on 12/9/09! FET scheduled for 12/10 but embryo did not survive the thaw (((hugs)))

lenebene ? Split DE cycle underway, on estrogen, donor started stims, ER on 4/25, ET is done - BFP! Beta #1 = 314, Beta #2 = 664, u/s showed one bean, u/s #2 saw heartbeat again, released to OB, team green!

lhcooper ? Cycling with DE at out-of-state clinic, ER 12/5 - 16 eggs retrieved, got 5 in split cycle, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 5dt of one embryo on 12/10, beta #1=413, beta #2= 3952, first u/s showed a healthy baby with heartbeat of 138 bpm, second u/s also went great, CVS on 2/14 showed healthy baby GIRL! Starting monthly growth scans, beautiful big baby girl arrived 8/31/12!   

lisaiesha ? DE cycle with an anonymous, proven donor, transferred one Day 5 blast on 3/12 ? BFP! Due date was 11/29

lunatwo ? September cycle cancelled due to ovulating on Lupron, DE IVF#1 - ER was 11/11, 13 eggs, 6 fertilized, 5 B-grade embryos, ET on 11/16, BFP! Beta #1 = 485, Beta #2 = 2,495, first u/s showed twins!! A boy and a girl!   

lynn0926 ? Pursuing DE out of state, found a local clinic willing to do monitoring and submit to insurance, started mock cycle on 4/2, accepted into guarantee program and lining looks good, chose a new donor, donor started stims on 6/8, 25 fertilized embies! Transfer on the 6/28, HPTs+, Beta 2500! 2nd beta at 13dp5dt was 6131, first u/s showed TWINS! Had NT scan, everything going well, it?s 2 boys! C-section scheduled!  

Mama-Bear ? GC due with baby boy on 5/6, 31 weeks!

njohnson1972 ? Last attempt with OE, transferred 2 embryos on 11/6, BFP!  Jack is here! IVF cycle with OE unsuccessful, currently on a break and pursuing DE during the summer