Luckily DH's dad side of the family is HUGE so it was easy to hide out. It was interesting. I went in the kitchen where they were and smiled. FIL's wife, whom I despise, came over and was talking to DS. I said to him, "Say Hi!" Didn't call her by her name so as my to stir the pot about her not being referred to as grandma.
My FIL didn't even look at me. He glanced at DS but not at me. I'm proud I played nice. I decided to go to my SIL's baby shower that is at their clubhouse in a couple weeks. Should be interesting.
Re: FU: Sick to my stomach
Props to you - you didn't flash on someone's @$$! Playing nice and being the bigger person is winning!