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Can't shake this fear

AMJ6511AMJ6511 member
in April 2013 Moms
I'm kinda scared of something being wrong with the baby. Like maybe she is special needs or something. I brought it up to my OB and she said that there doesn't seem to be anything to worry about, but there is always a chance. I'm just scared. I don't know if I could handle that. 
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  • UnknownUnknown
    If and only if your baby girl was to be special needs you would love her the same and you would adjust to her needs as every mom does to their newborns. It may seem like a lot to take on but you would be able to handle taking care of her. Dont stress it t
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  • jkkg317jkkg317 member
    I've had that fear, that something is wrong with the baby. I think, for me anyway, it's a matter of control and not knowing what's going on in there. Mostly nerves too about meeting the baby. 
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  • sherina825sherina825 member
    We all pray for a perfect little baby. But sometimes that doesn't happen. I know that even if something is God forbid wrong with your little angel, they will still be just that and you will love them and take care of them just as you would with any other
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  • nyki06nyki06 member

    While my daughter isn't technically "special needs" she did end up having Hip Dysplasia which was diagnosed at 4 months. That meant months of her being confined to brace from the waist down that she had to wear 24/7, so many appointments that I couldn'

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  • oandmplus1oandmplus1 member
    With DD, I never thought in a million years there was anything wrong. She arrived and looked and acted as healthy as could be. But I do have a special needs child, and let me tell you, I love her more than I could ever imagine. Life is more challenging th
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  • WorkinWeezelWorkinWeezel member
    You're baby will be perfect in your eyes no matter what. As someone who works with children with severe disabilities, I can tell you that these children are very loved and cherished by their families. Some of their typical siblings cause more difficulties
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