SS2 lies continuously. He has been grounded, lost his phone, lost tv/playstation privileges, etc. Endless conversations from DH and me about his behavior and our disappointment. Nothing works.
After giving him the opportunity to tell the truth and explaining the consequences of continuous lying, we have a new strategy. He has to do 25 pushups for every lie and it goes up for additional lies. We are now at 30 pushups tonight. He cried and whined about the last set but I reminded him that he chose to lie and therefore he chose to do the pushups.
I have no idea why this is occurring or why he thinks lying is going to be a better option. When he tells the truth, even if its bad news, we praise him. If he lies, and then tells the truth, we praise him. We tell him that we are proud of his decision to be honest. Now he lies, and then lies, and then lies again. We give him an out every single time and still he lies.
I don't know if the pushups are going to help but they make me feel better. Any suggestions would be greatly welcome.
PS. SS2 is almost 17 y/o.
Re: new strategy to deal with SS2's lies
full time stepmom to SS1 and SS2 since 2010
married since 2011
TTC since 7/2011 (no planned bc since 2008)
HSG 11/2011: one blocked tube
S/A 2/2012 and retest S/A 3/2012: normal
Bloodwork: normal
2nd HSG 5/2012: clear
Femara cycle 5mg #1 7/14/12 + IUI #1 7/23/12 = bfn
New RE appt 8/14/12
IVF #1 meds 8/30/12. ER 9/14/2012: 7 retrieved, 6 fertilized. ET 9/19/12: 1 perfect embryo 5dt.
Beta #1 BFP! 97
Beta #2 234
Beta #3 4937
ultrasound #1 heart beat 127
10/20/12 graduated!!!
EDD 6/7/12
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