And it feels good. I no longer feel guilty (now I'm just tired...)
I finally got fed up this week of treating sleep like a battle against my baby. Ferber worked for about the first week, and then it has been nothing but hearing him cry most nights for almost 2 months now. It is probably because he isn't night weaned and so I can't be 100% consistent because sometimes I would go in and nurse him and sometimes not. I'm so jealous of the people for whom it has worked miracles. If the night wakings get super bad again, maybe I'll try the Sleep Lady or something.
Anyone else try sleep training and it didn't work for them? Are you now like me and trying to wait it out some more?