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I love you girls

JuddandJessicaJuddandJessica member
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You girls get me. Sometimes I feel like you are the only parents out there that do.

A friend found out today that her baby has no heartbeat. I don't even know this girl well but I sat down and cried at work. Everything just came flooding back. It took me everything I had not to pick lo up from school just to hold him all afternoon and tell him I love him. I am so sick of this pain and hearing time and time again that someone is experiencing it. It's so unfair...

This has no point other than to say I'm angry.

BPF 1. Baby Girl "Petri" 12/22/11 Said goodbye 12/27/11

BPF 2. Baby Boy "Roo" 1/20/12 Heartbeat 160b/m 2/15/12 Said goodbye 2/20/12

BPF 3. Rainbow Baby Boy "Creed"  4/28/12 Born healthy and alive 1/5/13

BFP 4. "Rainbow 2.0" 8/17/14 due 4/28/15

 

"Darling don't be afraid. I have loved you a thousand years. I love you a thousand more."

 

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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    I'm so sorry for your friend's loss. ((Hugs)) to her and you.
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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    Hugs all around :(
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  • pb&fluffpb&fluff member
    That's so sad.  :(  Hugs to you and your friend.
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  • FreyaWin2382FreyaWin2382 member
    It never really goes away. Hugs
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  • karma79karma79 member
    Huge hug. It was hard to hear about losses before and even more so after experiencing it.
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  • JulyMomma2U2JulyMomma2U2 member
    (((Hugs))) for both your friend, and you :(  It is unfair.. prior to my loss I had no idea of "common" loss is.. now, it seems like it's occurring everywhere.. my heart breaks, too, every time I hear about someone experiencing that gut wrenching hear
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  • jobiannjobiann member
    So sad, hugs to you and extra hugs to your friend. It's so nice you were there/are there for her. 

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